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Top Pakistan university (LUMS) to ban kissing
The Lahore University of Management Sciences promises to prohibit public displays of affection after a highly publicized peck on the cheek exposed deep fissures in Pakistani society.
By Issam Ahmed | Correspondent from the October 14, 2009 edition
Lahore, Pakistan - It all started with a kiss.
When an unsuspecting female student at Lahore University of Management Sciences turned to peck her boyfriend on the cheek during the Islamic holy month of Ramadan last month, she probably thought her private moment would remain just that.
Instead the kiss – which a fellow student witnessed, documented, and then blasted in an email to the entire university as part of her "dossier" on campus PDAs (public displays of affection) – has sparked a passionate, headline-grabbing debate about how conservative Pakistani society should be.
The vigilant student, Tajwar Tashfin Awan, sent the mass email in an effort to generate support from students and the administration, which has since promised to "see any PDA go the route of the dodo." Instead, in the past several weeks it has generated hundreds of replies invoking anger, humor, and famous philosophers on what is normally a quiet listserv.
The brouhaha at LUMS, Pakistan's premier educational institution, points to the drastically different ideological directions in which youths across the country are being pulled, says Asif Akthar, the Lahore-based blogger who first reported the story and is now a research assistant at the university.
"I think [the debate over the kiss] signifies a conflict between different cultural identities and shows there is something unresolved there," he says.
LUMS's leafy campus, located in a heavily fortified compound in the posh Defence neighborhood of Lahore, has stood out in Pakistan as a place where students of all stripes seem to coexist. Dressed in everything from burqas and shalwar kameez to tank tops and skinny jeans, and drawn mostly from the upper-middle class, the student body goes on to hold top jobs in finance, industry, law, and software engineering. Many continue their studies in the West.
"At LUMS, you'll find people of all ideological persuasions studying and living together easily. There's a deeply secular community. There are religious ascetics who believe in a more tolerant form of Islam. There are Deobandis [an ultraconservative branch of Islam], and there are Marxists," says Ammar Rashid, a recent graduate and now research assistant in social sciences.
LUMS has also been more open about men and women studying together – in contrast with some government-run universities, such as the University of the Punjab also in Lahore, where "free-mixing" between the sexes is frowned upon and in some instances violently opposed by the Islami Jamiat Talaba, an Islamist student group.
But as the kissing scandal shows, the fissures of a society in flux run through LUMS as well, says Mr. Akhtar. "In a country where there's an ongoing debate about the role of religion and the state, that debate is going to spill over into all aspects of public life and college campuses."
In the maelstrom of replies to the e-mail that exposed the kiss (and threatened to supply photographic evidence of it), one conservative senior tried to guide freshmen on the correct path. "At LUMS, you will be bombarded with all sorts of atheistic and secular philosophies and 'isms'. If you do not have the proper knowledge and conviction about Islam, you may fall prey to the untiring efforts of certain faculty members as well as your fellow students to misguide you," he wrote, before linking to his personal website dedicated to Islamic practices.
Others responded with sarcasm: "I have sinned. I do not believe that there is a God because I can not see, feel, hear or touch Him/Her… During the holy month, instead of attending Koranic recitals in the mosque, I was listening to the demonic sounds of Pink Floyd," wrote one junior.
The LUMS Office of Student Affairs has promised to issue a code of conduct to ban PDAs – a measure some students have lauded, and others rolled their eyes at.
That would be a blow to university's prevailing culture of democracy and tolerance, says Akhtar. "The administration should be fostering a debate on the issue to try to get a handle on what the so-called prevailing norms really are, and the ideas should be thrashed out for debate," he says.
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Was this a suicide attack by Islamic extremist ??? If yes why on Islamic University???
Four killed in two blasts at Islamic University Updated at: 1928 PST, Tuesday, October 20, 2009
ISLAMABAD: Twin suicide blasts tore through a university campus in Pakistan's capital Tuesday killing flour people and injuring 29 others, as the military pursued a major anti-Taliban offensive in the lawless northwest.
The bombing of Islamabad's International Islamic University was the seventh major militant attack in just over a fortnight and the first since the military launched what officials vowed would be a knockout blow
first how these videos and pictures shows that these are lums student not some other place, and second how CS said incident did happened and who was blogger they must have given link. but any how how ppl made stories out of nothing. tommorow some will say i saw a blog according to that sex will be must for all lums student lolll common we have somthing good to do.????
Now a Mulla would declare Jihad on LUMS....
Ethics and Morality teaches us to be decent in public.
there are boundaries ... and a tolerant well behaved society observes that.
Every thing is bloody Haram in this country... find some more people to be declared Kafir... off of somebodys head... Hate Hate Hate Hate...Kill Kill Kill Kill......
someones indecency woud start a pointless shouting ...blaming ...
we would be given Lessons on Islam by tons of Taliban cut throat Kharji Lovers...
.. lets see how many Fatwas come on this....
Mulla Taliban lovers would staright away put a death decree...
Just Flippin declare Jihad on whole Worlds rear end...
these sexually frustrated people only think dirty..
their Faith in themselves is feeble...
a deprived disadvantaged uneducated brainwashed society...claiming to be the righteous God sent Commandos
Well....after watching this n reading all these comments,i could never believe this is an institute of the so-called Islamic republic of pak......!!
Great...!!!Is bat pay kitna dil dukhaya jaey aur kitney aaonsoo bahaey jain...ham khud azab-e-ilahe ko dawat dey rahey hain,tabhe to ye hal hay hmara....!!we r behing beaten like animals coz WEV FORGOTTEN WAT WE WERE SENT HERE FOR...!!
Jab hm khuda ko bhulain gey to khuda bhi hmain bhool jaey ga...!!
I knw those who fav this will have the least level of their minds to understand wat we say.....coz to understand this uv to have the followrs of the beloved prophet...(pbuh)n an understanding of a lil bit of Islam......!!
Aur us pay ye dalaire k they dont even accept this is wrong....!!OMG jab aap ko khuda ka dar nahe hay to phir bandon say kia darna...kis k fatwey ka khadsha hay aap ko...????
Insan ka yahe "ghuroor" usey "firooniat" ki tarf ley jata hay aur aisey logon ki khuda bhi rassi daraz karta hay..aur aik dafa he un ki aisey pakard hote hay k phir uney khda yad ata hay......!!but the problem is aisey gunah sirf chnd afrad ko nahe poori kaum ko ley doobtey hain,n that is wat we r waiting for.....!!
Dears,dont worry koi mullah is par fatwa nahe lagaey ga...do watever ur heart wants..but atleast mk this clear to ur conscious that whthr to be a muslim or not..Ye darmian main latakney ki kia zaroorat hay..choose one way for u...no body bounds u for that....Is "takalluf" ki bhi kia zaroorat hay...kunk aik muslim ka her amal poori muslim umma ki akkasi karta hay.....!!
Go the whl world is open for u......y to blame the pure religion Islam n y to pollute this country.....!!
I can just pray k ya Allah hmain hidayat dey..(amen)
Hmain us waqt say bachaey jab hmarey yahe aamal hmarey ooper qaher ban kar nazil hon gay(amen)