[Discussion] Sawaal-E-khusoosi ..... ??? participation of men will b appreciated :)

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AOA

hru all??

question is;

GHR DAMADI ko log kun buri nazar se dekhtey hen...??? kun mrd ki gherat pr bn jati he agr use koi ghr damadi ka keh de

ya ghr damadi ka tana de?????

OR

agr waqai ghr damadi aik gherat mnd admi k liye tana he ya ghalat bat he ya gherat pr hrf k brabar he to.........

WO MRD JAHAIZ LENA kese gawara krleta he?? kiye ye gherat pr hrf nahi??? k aik shakhs shadi is dawe or wade k

sath krrahahe k wo sari umr apni biwi k liye sahara bne ga, shadi ki shuruaat hi awrat/biwi k saman se krta he

isn't it hillarious...???




Thanx all for ur participation n appreciation if any lol

[mi$$y]

wasalam!
yeah humare gande mushre ka tazad hai
aise buhat se tazadat hain humare mushre main or ghron main

mari phopho ki beti doctor hai kahti main ne beti wahan daini hai jahan khansaman ho mari beti ne nahi rotiaan pakni
kisi ki ..main ne raton ko jaga ke is liye nahi parya ke wo roti pakye or itna paisa is liye nahi lagya ke wo gherdari kare
but
jab bete ki shadi ki hai tu main ne baho wo lani hai jo hum main mil ke bethe ..wo bhi docter hai sath hi rahte hain wo bhi
tu bechari mangni ke baad se in ka kicthen dekhti hai hum guest jayeen tu un ki beti nahi baho serve karti hai sab kuch shadi se phele se hi

hun dasi aye ki tazad nahi


asie hio hazar bateen hain huamre family system main

[Adiva Afafa]

hahahahahahah!!!! very serious and and funny questions .....lol.....

iska jawab tau boys hi day sakty hain
but han agar bura lagta hay ghar damadi pay tau jahaiz bhi na lo...........



well kaheen aysa bhi daikha hay main nay k mard raazi nai hota jahaiz pay kabhi koi mard isko as a custom samjhta hay or koi gharwalon say darta hay....................



system hay ye jahaiz ..kya kiiya jaye...magar hay tau ghalat.................

[Adiva Afafa]

wasalam!
yeah humare gande mushre ka tazad hai
aise buhat se tazadat hain humare mushre main or ghron main

mari phopho ki beti doctor hai kahti main ne beti wahan daini hai jahan khansaman ho mari beti ne nahi rotiaan pakni
kisi ki ..main ne raton ko jaga ke is liye nahi parya ke wo roti pakye or itna paisa is liye nahi lagya ke wo gherdari kare
but
jab bete ki shadi ki hai tu main ne baho wo lani hai jo hum main mil ke bethe ..wo bhi docter hai sath hi rahte hain wo bhi
tu bechari mangni ke baad se in ka kicthen dekhti hai hum guest jayeen tu un ki beti nahi baho serve karti hai sab kuch shadi se phele se hi

hun dasi aye ki tazad nahi


asie hio hazar bateen hain huamre family system main

ye society ka bht purana or jahilana system hay...mjhay bht ghusa ata hay....


isi pay madday nazar aik point hay

kuch yun hay


k haye meri beti ka shohar us sy bht muhabbat karta hay,,kam ko hath tak nai laganay daita ,,haye sach meri beti bht sukhi hay...

but agar beta zara kuch tabiyat hi pooch lay tau tobaaaaaaaa...or bahu k name pay kaha jata hay bura...or beta agar bahu ka hogaya tau ye kaha jata hay mera beta tau bahu ka ho k reh gaya maa ko tau bhool hi gaya hay ...zara ehsaas nai..........


lol at these kind of people...

[Rujail]

WALAIKUM ASSALAM,

ek tu pahly lerki waly lerky ke geologist ki tarah se sieve analysis kerty hian. . inni chaan phatak ke jesy CIA waly hon. . .
hud tu ye he ke paas paros tu door ki baat oskey Primary school tak pohanch jaty hian pooch ghach ke liye. . ke ye bachpan me kesa tha. . . .h

Phir dosra sawal ke kamata kitna he. . . zara jo amden me kami beshi paai. . jhat inkaar ker diya. . ye nahi sochtey ke unki lerki bhi lerky aur os ke gher waloon ki taraah se Gandum ki roti hi khati he. ..
najaney kion ye Lerki waly apny Damad ke gher ko Shahanshah Akber ke mahal jesa kion dekhna chahtey hain. . . pni lerki ke demagh tu pehly khud kharab kerty hian ke. . susraal me jay gi tu aish kary gi hamari raaj dulari. . .
lerki chahy jesi hji poher kion na ho. . per lerka kamao poot chiahey. . .Arey zara sa jehez de diya to kon si qayamat aagai. . . tumhari apni lerki hi tu use kary gi. . .. aur jo loug jahez ki demaand kerty hian. . . ya jahez ki shert per shadi ker tey hian tu on se rishta kerty hi kion ho. . . apni lekri ki sahi umer me shadi ker dian tu aaj unko majboori me koi rishta tu na kerna pary na. . .
gher ke lerkoon ko poochtey nahi. . . ke khala raziha ke lerka thora mota he. . .aisa he wesa he. . . "wesy aapus ki baat he khala raziha ke lerka he kesa" ye sawal bhi dosri cousins se poochti phirti hain lerkiyaan. .
bas Damad ko badnaam kerna ata he. . ye nahi ke sahi time per sahi faisla ker lain . . aur pani lekri ka gher basaain.

Gher Damad Merd ke liye waqai Gali he. . . kion ke Merd ki tareef ye he ke "Jo mushkil me na ghabraay". ab loug Merdoon per bharosa karian na. . pani lerki ki shadi karian na. . ke lerky ka apna gher nahi he. . aur ooper se osey majboor karian ke Gher Damad ban jaao. . . tu es Zawal e maashrat per koi insaan apni izzat o nafs ki hifazat ke liye lerki waloon ke najaaiz batoon ko na maaney tu batao kery tu kia karey. . .
kia ye theek he ke bazar e hussan ke chakkar katna shoroo ker dey. . . y akisi gali ke nikar p[er beth ker kisi "bil-batori" ke ishq me giraftaar ho jay . . .aur oski zindagi ajeeran ker dey.

likhan abhi bohat kuch he. . per me janta hon ke meri itni bhaat bhi kisi ke pally nahi pary gi. . . tu aagy likhney ka koi faidah nahi. ..

me bas itna kahta hon ke. . ager mil jian khaian to dhood ke ley ke aao kahain se aisey Maa Baap jo apni beti ki shadi kis imaandar Mard per aitemaad ker ke jo Zoroorat Mand bhi ho, se ker dain Allah ke bharosey per. . . jo 2 time ki izzat ki roti khata ho. . . zara hum bhi tu dekhian. . . ke Damad hi kharab hian ye Dulhan me bhi kuch khot hay. . .


dulhan ka tu dil deewana lagta he
dulhey ka sehra suhana lagta he

[pious angel]

woooooowwwwwww................zabrdest......kia point uthaya hy in nam nihad ghirat mnd mardun pr...acha maze ki bat ye k sb se zada is ghairat k muamle pr hamari hi society k mrd akrhte hen or sb se zada beghairti b jahez le kr yahi mrd show krte hen...uff sch a fake society we hav nd is ka main rzn b i think yahi hy k ISLAM se dori.......

[A r s a L.]

is forum me total 2-3 larky hain jo yahan participate karty hain ... apny comments de k me ne wott nahi lagwani apni so no comments !!

[Rujail]

is forum me total 2-3 larky hain jo yahan participate karty hain ... apny comments de k me ne wott nahi lagwani apni so no comments !!

lerky . . ye bravo ka title hata do. . . tum es kke laaiq kia . . nalaiq bhi nahi ho. . . hahahaha

me tu kehta hon tum subah shaam 2 , 2 time apni watt legwaya karo. . inshallah tala ifaqa hoga. . . Mod banana ata nahi MOD ban gay. . hunh...............

[*~Princess Pari~*]

Ayeeee Hayeeeeeeeeee Arzu g..............Kiya dil jalata sawaal kiya hey......Mardoon ki Dukhti Rag pr haath rakh diya....ab dekhna kesey Gola bari ho gi or kesey Dhuwaan uthey ga............

[Flashpro]

gud topic...

... oh mein zara list bana raha tha

[Haz!L]

Wa'laikum assalam!!

Topic kaffi acha hai par mujhy ye batao ye kyaa ye still trend hai aj kaa ?

[Silent Ray]

wa alekum salam !!

mera dil chahta he k main aap ki baat se ikhtalaaf karon. Un mardon k liye jo dono ko hi apni gherat k khilaaf samjhty hn ..
but truth is that society mn double standards hn . but society to mard aurat dono se banti he... to double standards dono ki waja se hi hn kisi 1 ki waja se nahi
aur jis society mn jehez ki demand ki jati he ... wahan mardon se zeyada auratain is ki demand karti hn
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ap isy social issue samjh kar society se address karian .... sirf mardon ka hi to qasoor nahi
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aur ghar damadi ki to kaya kahiye .... log bahir jany k liye itny mary hoty hn k larki shadi kar k sath bahir le jay ....... tab un ko yeh bura feel nahi hota ... aur agr pakistan mn ho to sab ko hota he ....
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kaya he jo yahan hilarious nai he .... yahan aawy ka aawa hi bigra hua he ..... mard, aurat sab aik jesy hi hn .... dono mil kar hi aesi sochon ko janam dety hn.

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ap ne sahi kaha k dono mrd owrAT barabar hen is qasoor me

k jahan even susral wale naa bhi mang rahe hon wahan pr bhi parents zroor dete hen k log kiya kahen ge? ya log b to dekhen hm ne kiya diya he jahaiz me? etc etc BUTTT

responsibility mrd pr aaid hoti he isi liye mene mrd ko point out kiya khsusi tor pr kunk us ki kuch wjuhat hen

1- ye k ye muashra mrd ka hai, wo agr kuch chahe to kun n hosktaa

2- wo agr khud sakhti se mana krdey to na srf mrd k apne ghr wale blk lrki kn parents kob jurrat na ho us ki mrzi k khilaf krne k.......baqi individual dffrnces hen
kuch log bht hi dheet hotey hen ise b apni anaa ka msla bna lete hen k hme jahaiz dene se roka jaraha he...etc etc

3- lakin atleast jahan manne wale mojood hon wahan mrd k is inkaar ki na srf ahmiyat he blk zbrdst step hai mrd ki janib se, us ki respect alag hogi

or personally srf ase log hi mrd kehlane k laiq hen jo waqai apni duties jantey hen

wa alekum salam

mera dil chahta he k main aap ki baat se ikhtalaaf karon. Un mardon k liye jo dono ko hi apni gherat k khilaaf samjhty hn ..
but truth is that society mn double standards hn . but society to mard aurat dono se banti he... to double standards dono ki waja se hi hn kisi 1 ki waja se nahi
aur jis society mn jehez ki demand ki jati he ... wahan mardon se zeyada auratain is ki demand karti hn
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ap isy social issue samjh kar society se address karian .... sirf mardon ka hi to qasoor nahi
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aur ghar damadi ki to kaya kahiye .... log bahir jany k liye itny mary hoty hn k larki shadi kar k sath bahir le jay ....... tab un ko yeh bura feel nahi hota ... aur agr pakistan mn ho to sab ko hota he ....
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kaya he jo yahan hilarious nai he .... yahan aawy ka aawa hi bigra hua he ..... mard, aurat sab aik jesy hi hn .... dono mil kar hi aesi sochon ko janam dety hn.

[ѕмαяту ¢αт]

aapka point of view apni jaga drst he lakin is topic k hawale se qata irrelevent answer tha apkaa so no cmnts

WALAIKUM ASSALAM,

ek tu pahly lerki waly lerky ke geologist ki tarah se sieve analysis kerty hian. . inni chaan phatak ke jesy CIA waly hon. . .
hud tu ye he ke paas paros tu door ki baat oskey Primary school tak pohanch jaty hian pooch ghach ke liye. . ke ye bachpan me kesa tha. . . .h

Phir dosra sawal ke kamata kitna he. . . zara jo amden me kami beshi paai. . jhat inkaar ker diya. . ye nahi sochtey ke unki lerki bhi lerky aur os ke gher waloon ki taraah se Gandum ki roti hi khati he. ..
najaney kion ye Lerki waly apny Damad ke gher ko Shahanshah Akber ke mahal jesa kion dekhna chahtey hain. . . pni lerki ke demagh tu pehly khud kharab kerty hian ke. . susraal me jay gi tu aish kary gi hamari raaj dulari. . .
lerki chahy jesi hji poher kion na ho. . per lerka kamao poot chiahey. . .Arey zara sa jehez de diya to kon si qayamat aagai. . . tumhari apni lerki hi tu use kary gi. . .. aur jo loug jahez ki demaand kerty hian. . . ya jahez ki shert per shadi ker tey hian tu on se rishta kerty hi kion ho. . . apni lekri ki sahi umer me shadi ker dian tu aaj unko majboori me koi rishta tu na kerna pary na. . .
gher ke lerkoon ko poochtey nahi. . . ke khala raziha ke lerka thora mota he. . .aisa he wesa he. . . "wesy aapus ki baat he khala raziha ke lerka he kesa" ye sawal bhi dosri cousins se poochti phirti hain lerkiyaan. .
bas Damad ko badnaam kerna ata he. . ye nahi ke sahi time per sahi faisla ker lain . . aur pani lekri ka gher basaain.

Gher Damad Merd ke liye waqai Gali he. . . kion ke Merd ki tareef ye he ke "Jo mushkil me na ghabraay". ab loug Merdoon per bharosa karian na. . pani lerki ki shadi karian na. . ke lerky ka apna gher nahi he. . aur ooper se osey majboor karian ke Gher Damad ban jaao. . . tu es Zawal e maashrat per koi insaan apni izzat o nafs ki hifazat ke liye lerki waloon ke najaaiz batoon ko na maaney tu batao kery tu kia karey. . .
kia ye theek he ke bazar e hussan ke chakkar katna shoroo ker dey. . . y akisi gali ke nikar p[er beth ker kisi "bil-batori" ke ishq me giraftaar ho jay . . .aur oski zindagi ajeeran ker dey.

likhan abhi bohat kuch he. . per me janta hon ke meri itni bhaat bhi kisi ke pally nahi pary gi. . . tu aagy likhney ka koi faidah nahi. ..

me bas itna kahta hon ke. . ager mil jian khaian to dhood ke ley ke aao kahain se aisey Maa Baap jo apni beti ki shadi kis imaandar Mard per aitemaad ker ke jo Zoroorat Mand bhi ho, se ker dain Allah ke bharosey per. . . jo 2 time ki izzat ki roti khata ho. . . zara hum bhi tu dekhian. . . ke Damad hi kharab hian ye Dulhan me bhi kuch khot hay. . .


dulhan ka tu dil deewana lagta he
dulhey ka sehra suhana lagta he

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Exactly munafqat ki ye had he k hm khud apne ap se mun chupate phirtey hen

wasalam!
yeah humare gande mushre ka tazad hai
aise buhat se tazadat hain humare mushre main or ghron main

mari phopho ki beti doctor hai kahti main ne beti wahan daini hai jahan khansaman ho mari beti ne nahi rotiaan pakni
kisi ki ..main ne raton ko jaga ke is liye nahi parya ke wo roti pakye or itna paisa is liye nahi lagya ke wo gherdari kare
but
jab bete ki shadi ki hai tu main ne baho wo lani hai jo hum main mil ke bethe ..wo bhi docter hai sath hi rahte hain wo bhi
tu bechari mangni ke baad se in ka kicthen dekhti hai hum guest jayeen tu un ki beti nahi baho serve karti hai sab kuch shadi se phele se hi

hun dasi aye ki tazad nahi


asie hio hazar bateen hain huamre family system main

[ѕмαяту ¢αт]

jahaiz??? trend nahi beemRI BN gai he

oyee tm mod bn gai ho :D great tm ne to btaya hi nahi

kis section ki??

best of luck

Wa'laikum assalam!!

Topic kaffi acha hai par mujhy ye batao ye kyaa ye still trend hai aj kaa ?

[Haz!L]

jahaiz??? trend nahi beemRI BN gai he

oyee tm mod bn gai ho :D great tm ne to btaya hi nahi

kis section ki??

best of luck

han jahaiz tou ok mujhy pata hai bara trend hai aur is k alawaah kisi b larki k parents k liye shadi karna mushqil hai ... par main ghar damaad ka pouch rahi thi ..

yup!

Lk ki

Thanks alot !

No mail from your side kuch din pehly hi bani hoon aur main ny mail main bataya hai and check your yahoo offline masseges too

Take Care !

[Silent Ray]

ap ne sahi kaha k dono mrd owrAT barabar hen is qasoor me

k jahan even susral wale naa bhi mang rahe hon wahan pr bhi parents zroor dete hen k log kiya kahen ge? ya log b to dekhen hm ne kiya diya he jahaiz me? etc etc BUTTT

responsibility mrd pr aaid hoti he isi liye mene mrd ko point out kiya khsusi tor pr kunk us ki kuch wjuhat hen

1- ye k ye muashra mrd ka hai, wo agr kuch chahe to kun n hosktaa

2- wo agr khud sakhti se mana krdey to na srf mrd k apne ghr wale blk lrki kn parents kob jurrat na ho us ki mrzi k khilaf krne k.......baqi individual dffrnces hen
kuch log bht hi dheet hotey hen ise b apni anaa ka msla bna lete hen k hme jahaiz dene se roka jaraha he...etc etc

3- lakin atleast jahan manne wale mojood hon wahan mrd k is inkaar ki na srf ahmiyat he blk zbrdst step hai mrd ki janib se, us ki respect alag hogi

or personally srf ase log hi mrd kehlane k laiq hen jo waqai apni duties jantey hen

1...
wo agar chahy to .....
jis type k mardon ka society par hold he ... un k nazdeek shyad yeh apni shan o shukat dekhany ka 1 zariya he ..
agr koi kisi ki beti ko bahu bana kar la raha he to ....... He will like to show others hm ne kitni unchi jaga shadi ki he .
or
agr koi apni beti ko rukhsat kar raha he to .......... He will show others k hm ne apni beti ko buht kuch sath diya he .

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lakin ab aesy log bhi hn jin ka family par hold he .. jo un ko insist karty hn k na apni behan ki dafa jahez do na dosri ki dafa lo .......
but yeh kam khamoshi se ho jaty hn ..... news nahi ban pati is ki
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jis tarha k custom hm ne pakistan ban'ny k bad apna liye hn .... aur pehly kabi un ko address karny ki koshish tak nahi ki .......
yeh to abi last decade ki hi baat he people start talking about this.
so
it will be a slow going process.

[Rujail]

aapka point of view apni jaga drst he lakin is topic k hawale se qata irrelevent answer tha apkaa so no cmnts

qata irrelevent kesey ho gay bhala??? han ye zoroor he ke aapki tawwaqa ke barkhilaaf comment kiye hain mene.

I already said :"likhan abhi bohat kuch he. . per me janta hon ke meri itni bhaat bhi kisi ke pally nahi pary gi. . . tu aagy likhney ka koi faidah nahi. .. "

poori bat ka conclusion ye he ke. . . Larky (Damad) ko khjarab kerny me Mnderjabala awamil waqo pazeer hotey hain. .

han ye aur baat he ke. . mebhi aap aur sab ki tarah se apni bharas nikaal do jis ka koi haasil ho aur na wosool. .. !!! Taali donoon hathoon se bajti he. . . zimehdari lean mushkil kaam he ba-nisbat es ke ke zimdari dosroon per daal di jay.

Dosri bat jahez trend beemari ya rasam nahi. . huzoor pak sallala ho alaihi wassalm ne bhi hazrat fatima ko kuch tahaaif diye thay. . . mustahab amal he. . . bila kisi shart aur demand ke jahez dena jaiz he. . . aur ye apni beti se mohabbat ka izhaar he. . .

baqi rahi baat aaj-kal ke trend ki. . . to aaj-kal per zindagi ka daromadar nahi hota. . . ye hamara maashri masla he. aaj-kal ka insaan jis tarah se khud apney deen o dunya ka malik samjhta he. . . woh apny amal ka khud zimedaar hey.. .

mery rishtey ke bhai ki shadi per hum ne jahez leny se inkaar kia tha.. .per bhabi ke gher waaly zaberdusti room measure ker ke os ke size ke hisaab se saman ke aay thay. . .

again ager dil pe hath rakh ke ek baar phir merey 1st comment ko dekhain gey tu jawab mil jay ga. . . werna samjhny aur samjhaney ke liye koi tayyar hi nahi. . . han min-hias ul qoom hum ko bura bhala kehny me taaaq hasil he. . . to shoq se shoq pura fermian.

[Mr.MaNgO]

Silent ray aur Rujail ki baat c ittefaq krn ga
Hum log dysroon ki buraiyon ko bht jald apnaa lty hen jb k achaai ko apnatay hue hichkichaty hen
1. Mustansar Hussain k ksi safar namay ma prha e (afsos naam abi yaad nhi) k Indonesia aur Malaysia ma mard hazraat apni begmaat ko apny pesoon se saamaan khareed kr dty hen.
Jahaiz ma agr mukhalif party demand kr k ly to ese lalchi lgn c nai rishtedari dalne se pehly hazaar bar sochna chye. Silent Ray ne kaha r me quote kr raha hoon

lakin ab aesy log bhi hn jin ka family par hold he .. jo un ko insist karty hn k na apni behan ki dafa jahez do na dosri ki dafa lo .......
but yeh kam khamoshi se ho jaty hn ..... news nahi ban pati is ki
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jis tarha k custom hm ne pakistan ban'ny k bad apna liye hn .... aur pehly kabi un ko address karny ki koshish tak nahi ki .......
yeh to abi last decade ki hi baat he people start talking about this.

Rujail ki baat b bilkul theek ha k:

Dosri bat jahez trend beemari ya rasam nahi. . huzoor pak sallala ho alaihi wassalm ne bhi hazrat fatima ko kuch tahaaif diye thay. . .mustahab amal he. . . bila kisi shart aur demand ke jahez dena jaiz he. . . aur ye apni beti se mohabbat ka izhaar he. . .

Hadrat Fatimah (R.A) ne wo tohfay sari umr istemaal kye ti jo Nabi Pak (S.A.W) ne unko di!!!

han zbrdsti maang taang k lne wali cheex ko khtm krna chye, betiyn k maa baap q muashraay r lgn ko dkhany k lye apni hesiat r martabay c brh brh k dty en??? q ese mangny walon ko rokty nhi!!! wajbi sa do, (tohfatan) to is me muzaika to koi nhi, wo cheex betiyn ne he istemaal krni hti hen
hum lgn ki halat circus k hathi ki trh ha, js k paon ma bchpn ma he zanjeer dal di jati ha r wo usy k 7 bara o jta ha, halan k wo us ko 1 jhatkay c tor sakta ha, ye smjne ki xrurat e
burai ki tasheer hti e, achai chup jati ha.

jahan tk ghar damaadi ki baat ha to ye khud sakhta bnai hui riwayat ha. hmesha se khwateen e rukhsat o k jati hen, mardon ki rukhsati hum ni dkty. hmary muashray ki khud sakhta r ajeeb si rivayat bn chuki he jahan dono partiyon ko apna lalach r mafaad axeex hta e. is p me tbsra krna ni chahta.