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Assalam o alaikum
kese hain sab ?
again m here with a new guest , hope u all will love to know their views related to love n all dat

so m here with

fairy1128
Welcome fairy jee

sab mil ker welcome kero fairy ko in ki shert due hai mere per itni mushkil se pakarh ker lai hon

hehe
chalein fairy jesa k ap jaanti hongi k kuch sawalat k shuru mein ap ko jawab dene hongay , unse farigh hongi to members ap se sawal pooch sakeinge , love relationships aur baqi cheezon k tehat

khayal ye rakha jaye k sawal insaan ki zindagi se related na hon

so fairy ye rahey sawalat :
1-Pehli nazar k pyar k barey mein ap kia raye deingey ? Kia yeh exist karti hai? Kia yeh workout hoti hai?

2- Pyar ker k insaan ki kia kia responsibilites hoti hain ? Aap ko lagta hai keh Pyaar insaan ko kahin nah kahin badal deta hai?

3-Band ilfazoon mein dunia mien bohat log pyar kertey hain..ap kia kaheingey kis had tak yeh pyar sahi hota hai ? Is mein kia nuqsaanat aur kia faide hain? Aapki nazar mein.

4-Kehtey hain insan ko jab pyar ho jata hai to dunia jahaan ko bhool jata hai..sirf tab aik hee shakhs k khayalon mein gum rehta hai..ap ko yeh baat kis had tak sahi lagti hai ?

5-Duniya main koi aik rishta jo aapkeh buhat kareeb hai. Aur Kion?

6-Zindagi mein koi aisa mor’ aya jahan aapko kisi aik rishte ko bhool ker dosra rishta nibhana para ho? Details nahin indirectly bata dein. Kia situation thi aur kia solution nikala aapneh.

7-Aap Joint family system keh bare mein kia sochte hain? Kia advantages aur disadvantages hain?

8-Kuch log rone ko chupate hain aur itne sakht ho jate hain keh who rona hi bhool jate hain. Kia aapko lagta hai keh rone mein aapka roab khatam ho jata hai? Mard, aam tor per nahin hote kion keh society neh unhein aisa banaya hai keh who buhat strong hai. Does that mean they can’t cry at all? What do you have to say about it?

9-Dosti mein kia koi limits hoti hain..agar hoti hain to kitni had tak aur kis terhan ki? Aapki koi aisi dosti jis mein aapneh buhat seekha ho ya koi aia waqiya jis ko aap aaj tak sochte hain.

10-Ab kuch situations doon gi mein, Aap inka solution batayein.

-Aapkeh ghar wale aapki koi baat nahin maan rahe. Koi bhi ho sakti hai Toh aap kia karein ge? Zid per rahein ge ya unhein araam se manayein ge ya chor dein gey?

-Aapki shadi hoti hai, Aapki wife aur mom keh beech keh relations ache nahin hain. Is mein aap kia karein ge? Kis tarah un dono ko samjhayein ge aur kaise approach karein ge?

-Koi aisa rishta jo aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap buhat achi tareeqe se nibhayein ge. Aur kaise?

-Koi aisa rishta jo Aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap achi tarah se NAHIN nibha payein ge. Aur Kion?

-Dost aur Pyaar keh beech mein kisi aik ko bachana ho toh Kis ko bachayein ge? Aur kion? {Pyaar sirf pyaar hi nahin Saalon ki muhabbat hai aur Dost bhi bachpan ka hai}

in sawalon se farigh hon to phir hum aur sawal kareinge
any ways , welcome here



waiting for replies
khush rahiey
Wa Alaikum Assalam

[fairy1128]

Assalam-u-alakam,

yaai to bohut khaternaak sawal hai .....mai to fail ho jaoon ghee ...................mughay H.attack hotay hotay reh ghiaa ..akailay hi percha hal kerna hai ............?.............
Dr nai mughay sochnay or likhnay sai aj kal mana kiaa hai ................so mai yahan nehe hoon ......................

........................sochoon ghee, daikhoon ghee ,phir kal persoon likhoon ghee ................

[fairy1128]

Assalam-u-alakam,

subh sai pehlay to resmen .....shukria ....kahoon ghee . ke iss topics per mairee riay ko jannay ke liaay mughay select kia ..............


li jiaay sachi sachi , javab dainay ki koshish ki hai


1-Pehli nazar k pyar k barey mein ap kia raye deingey ? Kia yeh exist karti hai? Kia yeh workout hoti hai?


pehli nazer sai hum attract ho saktay hai .dosray ke barray mai sochnay ki ibtada ho saktee hai . lakin issay mohabet nehe keh saktay . haa yai ho sakta , hai ke waqat ke saath saath mohabet ho jiaay
2- Pyar ker k insaan ki kia kia responsibilites hoti hain ? Aap ko lagta hai keh Pyaar insaan ko kahin nah kahin badal deta hai?

bIlkul badel daita hai . aghir mohabet ho ghee to insaan khud bakhud badel jata hai .jissay vo khud bhe mehsoos nehe ker pata .. or kabhi kabhar to shaoore tor per bhe aissa kerta hai .
responsiiities to ………. Her rishta nihanay ke liaay zaroori hai …….
Aik dosray ke izzet kerni hoti hai .
Aik dosray ke ahsaasat samghnay ki zarooret hoti hai
dosray ferd ki soch ka ahtraam kerna perta hai .
dosray ko space danee perti hai .
care kerni perti hai .
time daina perta hai .
or compromisess bhe kernay pertay hai .
…………….

3-Band ilfazoon mein dunia mien bohat log pyar kertey hain..ap kia kaheingey kis had tak yeh pyar sahi hota hai ? Is mein kia nuqsaanat aur kia faide hain? Aapki nazar mein.


uffffffffffff ……….i think bol daina chahiaay ………
maghir kuch loghoon ki nature hotee hai vo keh nehe patay . mai khud apni feelings ka izhaar jald nehe ker pati ..
faeeday nuksaan ki baat nehe hai bass nature aisse hai nehe kaha jata ..
mairee nazer mai , mohabet , yaa mohabet honay keliay lafzoon ki mohtaajee nehe hoti , lakin mhabet nibhanay ke liaay lefzoon ka bohut ahem hissa hota hai ..rishtoon ko lafzoon ki zarooret hoti hai . or rishton ko ahsin tor sai nibhanay ke liaay amel ke saath bol bhe bohut ahem rol ada kertay hai .


4-Kehtey hain insan ko jab pyar ho jata hai to dunia jahaan ko bhool jata hai..sirf tab aik hee shakhs k khayalon mein gum rehta hai..ap ko yeh baat kis had tak sahi lagti hai ?

soch mai to vohi ferd hota hai lakin dunyia sai baighana nehe hoa ja sakta . app ke dill ke dunyia aik ferd sai abaad ho sakti hai .. lakin app sai wabesta afraad ke liaay to app ko kuch kerna ho ghaa na
mairay khial mai iss baat mai omer or maturity ka dakhil hai ………….khas tor per insaan ki apni soch , or oss ka behaviour bohut roll ada kerta hai .…………

5-Duniya main koi aik rishta jo aapkeh buhat kareeb hai. Aur Kion?

Mairee khala .. aik to bachpin sai mai on ke saath thee . phir onhoon nay mughay bohut mohabet de or kerti hai .. on ki sub sai achi baat ,vo yai thee ke kabhi mughay kissi kaam ko kernay sai roka nehe balkay
Achay or buray ka shaoor diaa ... mai nai apni zindghee ke sabhi lamhoon mai on ko saath piaa .Allah on ko sahet ke saath lambi omer ata karay ..( Ameen )

6-Zindagi mein koi aisa mor’ aya jahan aapko kisi aik rishte ko bhool ker dosra rishta nibhana para ho? Details nahin indirectly bata dein. Kia situation thi aur kia solution nikala aapneh.


Mai yahan nehe hoon …………….


7-Aap Joint family system keh bare mein kia sochte hain? Kia advantages aur disadvantages hain?


acha system hai aghir Dillon mai mohabet , izet ,or ravadaree ho to …….
Lakin aj ke dor mai yah system survive nehe ker pa raha .hassed , keena hirs in sub batoon nai hamay srif apnay app ko sochnay mai lagha dia hai .
maira khial thora farek hai iss barray mai … joint family yai nehe ke hum aik gher mai hi rehtay ho .. bhalay dill kosoon door q na ho . boojh ke terha rishtay nibhay jiaay .aissay mai to naee nasloon ke Dillon mai doori paida hotee hai jaissa ke ubh ho raha hai .
mairee nazer mai joint family vo hai jo door reh ker bhe dill ke qareeb ho .on ko apni zumma daroon ka ahsaas ho . khush raha jiay or dosroon ko bhe khush rehnay dia jiay ..
berhaal her gher ka apna life style hota hai . jo jissay suit karay apna laita hai . bass hamay dosroon ke liaay dushwariaan nehe paida kerna chahiaay .apnay amel ka hissab idher nehe to Allah ke hazoor zaroor daina hai , iss baat ko zahin mai rekhna chahiaay ..


8-Kuch log rone ko chupate hain aur itne sakht ho jate hain keh who rona hi bhool jate hain. Kia aapko lagta hai keh rone mein aapka roab khatam ho jata hai? Mard, aam tor per nahin hote kion keh society neh unhein aisa banaya hai keh who buhat strong hai. Does that mean they can’t cry at all? What do you have to say about it?


mai to bilkul koree hoon . maira chehra sub bata daita hai .. mughay to rona aiy to ro perti hoon. Or otnee he jaldee hans pertee hoon …………
Or merd bhe to insaan hai . Allah nai quderti tor per on ko mazbooti dai rakhee hai .. lakin berhal insaan to vo hai na . ahsaasaat to vo bhe rekhtay hai na .ha aghir rona a jiaay to iss mai aissa kuch burra bhe nehe hai . bass vo ortoon ki terha her chotti baat per rotay nehe hai . iss silslay mai oret merd sai zaeeda emotional hoti hai .


9-Dosti mein kia koi limits hoti hain..agar hoti hain to kitni had tak aur kis terhan ki? Aapki koi aisi dosti jis mein aapneh buhat seekha ho ya koi aia waqiya jis ko aap aaj tak sochte hain.

bilkul ji hote hai .. dosti ki noieat per , dost ki nature per or khud app ke apnay space dainay per . Assan sa forrmula hai islam ka ...........( jo tum ko pasend nehe vo dosroon ke liaay bhe napasend karo )....asanee sai had tay ho ghayee.
bohut saree dostiaan thee .
but hostel life ki 7,8 friends ka group bohut shaitaan thaa. os time ko hum nai bohut enjoy kia. especially aik dost ke saath bohut bonghiaan maree hai .......

10-Ab kuch situations doon gi mein, Aap inka solution batayein.

-Aapkeh ghar wale aapki koi baat nahin maan rahe. Koi bhi ho sakti hai Toh aap kia karein ge? Zid per rahein ge ya unhein araam se manayein ge ya chor dein gey?

Mairee fitret mai zidd bilkul bhe nehe hai . Allah ka shuker hai ke oss nai aisse nature ata ki hai ke jo jitna or jiss qader mill ghiaa . oss per Allah ka shuker ada kia .khud bhe khush rahay or dosroon ko bhe khush rekhna chaha ……………yaai situation mairay liaay nehe …………..


-Aapki shadi hoti hai, Aapki wife aur mom keh beech keh relations ache nahin hain. Is mein aap kia karein ge? Kis tarah un dono ko samjhayein ge aur kaise approach karein ge?

Hai ………………array mairee wife kaissay ho sakkte hai .. pata nehe merd ban ker swal ka javab daina hai …yaa kia hai ..?…………….samgh nehe aiee . khair mai iss ka female version mai answer dai rehe hoon

Mai married hoon . or mughay bhe problems aiee thee . ……kerna kia thaa bass…..
Subh sai pehlay Allah sai maded ki dua ki .. or phir jo Allah or oss kay RASOOL pak nai aik oret ke fraiez batay hai . on ko ada kernay ki koshish ki . poori iman daree sai .. ………mai nai kabhi nehe chaha ke maree zaat mairay husband ko on ke valdain yaa behn,bhahion sai door karay . …..
App apnay zameer ke samnay satisfy ho ke , mai acha ker rehe hoon . start mai zara mshkil hota hai . per himet rakhay insaan ............sometime sila nehe bhe milay to Allah ki raza ki khater app apna kaam kiay jao. To iss sai app ko qalbi sakoon milay ghaa jo ke bohut baree Allah ki namet hai ………or Allah kabhi bhe kisse ferd ka bura nehe chahitta …………or na he….Allah kabhi bhe apnay bandoon ko mauoos kerta hai .
Or raha merdon ke liaay, to on ke liaay bhe mushkil to hota hai . bass zara samghdaree sai kamm lai .. dono kai haqooq ada karay . or her choti baat pai adalet na lagha lai . bv or maa ko khud bhee aik dosray ko berdast kernay ki adet dalnay dai . lakin jahan zarooret ho , vahan hissa bhe lai .. or dono sides ko araam sai alagh sai samghia ja sakta hai .asel mai iss baat ko solve kernay ka koee perfect formula nehe hai .. waqat ke saath compromisess dono sides hi ko kerna chahiaay ...........

-Koi aisa rishta jo aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap buhat achi tareeqe se nibhayein ge. Aur kaise?


Allah ke karem or oss ke Mahboob ke rehmat ke sedqay .......Maa ka ………….coz mai bacho ki behtreen dost banoon ghee ................


-Koi aisa rishta jo Aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap achi tarah se NAHIN nibha payein ge. Aur Kion?

Allah ke karem or oss ke Mahboob ke rehmat shaml-e-haal hoee to aissa koee rishta nehe hai .. ………….

-Dost aur Pyaar keh beech mein kisi aik ko bachana ho toh Kis ko bachayein ge? Aur kion? {Pyaar sirf pyaar hi nahin Saalon ki muhabbat hai aur Dost bhi bachpan ka hai}

dono ferd hi ahem hai . pehlay to mai dono ko qareeb lanay ki koshish karoon ghee . or ikhtalaaf ki reason dhoondh ker ossay solve kernay ki koshish karoon ghee . lakin aghir mai apni poori koshish ke bawjood aissa kernay mai nakaam rehe to phir yakeene tor per apnay pyar ko select karoon ghee . coz maira pyar maira behtreen dost ban sakta hai , ho sakta hai . lakin behtreen dost sai mohabet ho, yai zaroori nehe ............ .

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well come fairy
it would b fantastic to know abt u

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bht khub Fairy jee .. keep it up nice answers.....

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Assalam-u-alakam,

subh sai pehlay to resmen .....shukria ....kahoon ghee . ke iss topics per mairee riay ko jannay ke liaay mughay select kia ..............


li jiaay sachi sachi , javab dainay ki koshish ki hai


1-Pehli nazar k pyar k barey mein ap kia raye deingey ? Kia yeh exist karti hai? Kia yeh workout hoti hai?


pehli nazer sai hum attract ho saktay hai .dosray ke barray mai sochnay ki ibtada ho saktee hai . lakin issay mohabet nehe keh saktay . haa yai ho sakta , hai ke waqat ke saath saath mohabet ho jiaay
2- Pyar ker k insaan ki kia kia responsibilites hoti hain ? Aap ko lagta hai keh Pyaar insaan ko kahin nah kahin badal deta hai?

bIlkul badel daita hai . aghir mohabet ho ghee to insaan khud bakhud badel jata hai .jissay vo khud bhe mehsoos nehe ker pata .. or kabhi kabhar to shaoore tor per bhe aissa kerta hai .
responsiiities to ………. Her rishta nihanay ke liaay zaroori hai …….
Aik dosray ke izzet kerni hoti hai .
Aik dosray ke ahsaasat samghnay ki zarooret hoti hai
dosray ferd ki soch ka ahtraam kerna perta hai .
dosray ko space danee perti hai .
care kerni perti hai .
time daina perta hai .
or compromisess bhe kernay pertay hai .
…………….

3-Band ilfazoon mein dunia mien bohat log pyar kertey hain..ap kia kaheingey kis had tak yeh pyar sahi hota hai ? Is mein kia nuqsaanat aur kia faide hain? Aapki nazar mein.


uffffffffffff ……….i think bol daina chahiaay ………
maghir kuch loghoon ki nature hotee hai vo keh nehe patay . mai khud apni feelings ka izhaar jald nehe ker pati ..
faeeday nuksaan ki baat nehe hai bass nature aisse hai nehe kaha jata ..
mairee nazer mai , mohabet , yaa mohabet honay keliay lafzoon ki mohtaajee nehe hoti , lakin mhabet nibhanay ke liaay lefzoon ka bohut ahem hissa hota hai ..rishtoon ko lafzoon ki zarooret hoti hai . or rishton ko ahsin tor sai nibhanay ke liaay amel ke saath bol bhe bohut ahem rol ada kertay hai .


4-Kehtey hain insan ko jab pyar ho jata hai to dunia jahaan ko bhool jata hai..sirf tab aik hee shakhs k khayalon mein gum rehta hai..ap ko yeh baat kis had tak sahi lagti hai ?

soch mai to vohi ferd hota hai lakin dunyia sai baighana nehe hoa ja sakta . app ke dill ke dunyia aik ferd sai abaad ho sakti hai .. lakin app sai wabesta afraad ke liaay to app ko kuch kerna ho ghaa na
mairay khial mai iss baat mai omer or maturity ka dakhil hai ………….khas tor per insaan ki apni soch , or oss ka behaviour bohut roll ada kerta hai .…………

5-Duniya main koi aik rishta jo aapkeh buhat kareeb hai. Aur Kion?

Mairee khala .. aik to bachpin sai mai on ke saath thee . phir onhoon nay mughay bohut mohabet de or kerti hai .. on ki sub sai achi baat ,vo yai thee ke kabhi mughay kissi kaam ko kernay sai roka nehe balkay
Achay or buray ka shaoor diaa ... mai nai apni zindghee ke sabhi lamhoon mai on ko saath piaa .Allah on ko sahet ke saath lambi omer ata karay ..( Ameen )

6-Zindagi mein koi aisa mor’ aya jahan aapko kisi aik rishte ko bhool ker dosra rishta nibhana para ho? Details nahin indirectly bata dein. Kia situation thi aur kia solution nikala aapneh.


Mai yahan nehe hoon …………….


7-Aap Joint family system keh bare mein kia sochte hain? Kia advantages aur disadvantages hain?


acha system hai aghir Dillon mai mohabet , izet ,or ravadaree ho to …….
Lakin aj ke dor mai yah system survive nehe ker pa raha .hassed , keena hirs in sub batoon nai hamay srif apnay app ko sochnay mai lagha dia hai .
maira khial thora farek hai iss barray mai … joint family yai nehe ke hum aik gher mai hi rehtay ho .. bhalay dill kosoon door q na ho . boojh ke terha rishtay nibhay jiaay .aissay mai to naee nasloon ke Dillon mai doori paida hotee hai jaissa ke ubh ho raha hai .
mairee nazer mai joint family vo hai jo door reh ker bhe dill ke qareeb ho .on ko apni zumma daroon ka ahsaas ho . khush raha jiay or dosroon ko bhe khush rehnay dia jiay ..
berhaal her gher ka apna life style hota hai . jo jissay suit karay apna laita hai . bass hamay dosroon ke liaay dushwariaan nehe paida kerna chahiaay .apnay amel ka hissab idher nehe to Allah ke hazoor zaroor daina hai , iss baat ko zahin mai rekhna chahiaay ..


8-Kuch log rone ko chupate hain aur itne sakht ho jate hain keh who rona hi bhool jate hain. Kia aapko lagta hai keh rone mein aapka roab khatam ho jata hai? Mard, aam tor per nahin hote kion keh society neh unhein aisa banaya hai keh who buhat strong hai. Does that mean they can’t cry at all? What do you have to say about it?


mai to bilkul koree hoon . maira chehra sub bata daita hai .. mughay to rona aiy to ro perti hoon. Or otnee he jaldee hans pertee hoon …………
Or merd bhe to insaan hai . Allah nai quderti tor per on ko mazbooti dai rakhee hai .. lakin berhal insaan to vo hai na . ahsaasaat to vo bhe rekhtay hai na .ha aghir rona a jiaay to iss mai aissa kuch burra bhe nehe hai . bass vo ortoon ki terha her chotti baat per rotay nehe hai . iss silslay mai oret merd sai zaeeda emotional hoti hai .


9-Dosti mein kia koi limits hoti hain..agar hoti hain to kitni had tak aur kis terhan ki? Aapki koi aisi dosti jis mein aapneh buhat seekha ho ya koi aia waqiya jis ko aap aaj tak sochte hain.

bilkul ji hote hai .. dosti ki noieat per , dost ki nature per or khud app ke apnay space dainay per . Assan sa forrmula hai islam ka ...........( jo tum ko pasend nehe vo dosroon ke liaay bhe napasend karo )....asanee sai had tay ho ghayee.
bohut saree dostiaan thee .
but hostel life ki 7,8 friends ka group bohut shaitaan thaa. os time ko hum nai bohut enjoy kia. especially aik dost ke saath bohut bonghiaan maree hai .......

10-Ab kuch situations doon gi mein, Aap inka solution batayein.

-Aapkeh ghar wale aapki koi baat nahin maan rahe. Koi bhi ho sakti hai Toh aap kia karein ge? Zid per rahein ge ya unhein araam se manayein ge ya chor dein gey?

Mairee fitret mai zidd bilkul bhe nehe hai . Allah ka shuker hai ke oss nai aisse nature ata ki hai ke jo jitna or jiss qader mill ghiaa . oss per Allah ka shuker ada kia .khud bhe khush rahay or dosroon ko bhe khush rekhna chaha ……………yaai situation mairay liaay nehe …………..


-Aapki shadi hoti hai, Aapki wife aur mom keh beech keh relations ache nahin hain. Is mein aap kia karein ge? Kis tarah un dono ko samjhayein ge aur kaise approach karein ge?

Hai ………………array mairee wife kaissay ho sakkte hai .. pata nehe merd ban ker swal ka javab daina hai …yaa kia hai ..?…………….samgh nehe aiee . khair mai iss ka female version mai answer dai rehe hoon

Mai married hoon . or mughay bhe problems aiee thee . ……kerna kia thaa bass…..
Subh sai pehlay Allah sai maded ki dua ki .. or phir jo Allah or oss kay RASOOL pak nai aik oret ke fraiez batay hai . on ko ada kernay ki koshish ki . poori iman daree sai .. ………mai nai kabhi nehe chaha ke maree zaat mairay husband ko on ke valdain yaa behn,bhahion sai door karay . …..
App apnay zameer ke samnay satisfy ho ke , mai acha ker rehe hoon . start mai zara mshkil hota hai . per himet rakhay insaan ............sometime sila nehe bhe milay to Allah ki raza ki khater app apna kaam kiay jao. To iss sai app ko qalbi sakoon milay ghaa jo ke bohut baree Allah ki namet hai ………or Allah kabhi bhe kisse ferd ka bura nehe chahitta …………or na he….Allah kabhi bhe apnay bandoon ko mauoos kerta hai .
Or raha merdon ke liaay, to on ke liaay bhe mushkil to hota hai . bass zara samghdaree sai kamm lai .. dono kai haqooq ada karay . or her choti baat pai adalet na lagha lai . bv or maa ko khud bhee aik dosray ko berdast kernay ki adet dalnay dai . lakin jahan zarooret ho , vahan hissa bhe lai .. or dono sides ko araam sai alagh sai samghia ja sakta hai .asel mai iss baat ko solve kernay ka koee perfect formula nehe hai .. waqat ke saath compromisess dono sides hi ko kerna chahiaay ...........

-Koi aisa rishta jo aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap buhat achi tareeqe se nibhayein ge. Aur kaise?


Allah ke karem or oss ke Mahboob ke rehmat ke sedqay .......Maa ka ………….coz mai bacho ki behtreen dost banoon ghee ................


-Koi aisa rishta jo Aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap achi tarah se NAHIN nibha payein ge. Aur Kion?

Allah ke karem or oss ke Mahboob ke rehmat shaml-e-haal hoee to aissa koee rishta nehe hai .. ………….

-Dost aur Pyaar keh beech mein kisi aik ko bachana ho toh Kis ko bachayein ge? Aur kion? {Pyaar sirf pyaar hi nahin Saalon ki muhabbat hai aur Dost bhi bachpan ka hai}

dono ferd hi ahem hai . pehlay to mai dono ko qareeb lanay ki koshish karoon ghee . or ikhtalaaf ki reason dhoondh ker ossay solve kernay ki koshish karoon ghee . lakin aghir mai apni poori koshish ke bawjood aissa kernay mai nakaam rehe to phir yakeene tor per apnay pyar ko select karoon ghee . coz maira pyar maira behtreen dost ban sakta hai , ho sakta hai . lakin behtreen dost sai mohabet ho, yai zaroori nehe ............ .

wa alaikum assalam
wah wah
bohat zabardsat jawab diey hain apne
us sawal mein ap ko mard ban ekr he batana tha hehe

khair
bohat ache jawab hain

aur bhi kuch sawal kerna chahongi

hum jab dosre ki feelings se bakhabar hote hain , yehi cheez hummein khatam ker rai hoti hai ander he ander se, k hum nahi jaante wo kia chahta hai /chahti hai , so un ki feelings ko janne k liey hum bohat danger kaam ya keh lein kuch risky cheezein ker jate hain jo relationship per effect kerti hain

so what u think? aisay kiey bina jaan sakta hai insaan ya aisay ker k janega?

[*BlessinG*]

Assalam-u-alakam,

subh sai pehlay to resmen .....shukria ....kahoon ghee . ke iss topics per mairee riay ko jannay ke liaay mughay select kia ..............


li jiaay sachi sachi , javab dainay ki koshish ki hai


1-Pehli nazar k pyar k barey mein ap kia raye deingey ? Kia yeh exist karti hai? Kia yeh workout hoti hai?


pehli nazer sai hum attract ho saktay hai .dosray ke barray mai sochnay ki ibtada ho saktee hai . lakin issay mohabet nehe keh saktay . haa yai ho sakta , hai ke waqat ke saath saath mohabet ho jiaay
2- Pyar ker k insaan ki kia kia responsibilites hoti hain ? Aap ko lagta hai keh Pyaar insaan ko kahin nah kahin badal deta hai?

bIlkul badel daita hai . aghir mohabet ho ghee to insaan khud bakhud badel jata hai .jissay vo khud bhe mehsoos nehe ker pata .. or kabhi kabhar to shaoore tor per bhe aissa kerta hai .
responsiiities to ………. Her rishta nihanay ke liaay zaroori hai …….
Aik dosray ke izzet kerni hoti hai .
Aik dosray ke ahsaasat samghnay ki zarooret hoti hai
dosray ferd ki soch ka ahtraam kerna perta hai .
dosray ko space danee perti hai .
care kerni perti hai .
time daina perta hai .
or compromisess bhe kernay pertay hai .
…………….

3-Band ilfazoon mein dunia mien bohat log pyar kertey hain..ap kia kaheingey kis had tak yeh pyar sahi hota hai ? Is mein kia nuqsaanat aur kia faide hain? Aapki nazar mein.


uffffffffffff ……….i think bol daina chahiaay ………
maghir kuch loghoon ki nature hotee hai vo keh nehe patay . mai khud apni feelings ka izhaar jald nehe ker pati ..
faeeday nuksaan ki baat nehe hai bass nature aisse hai nehe kaha jata ..
mairee nazer mai , mohabet , yaa mohabet honay keliay lafzoon ki mohtaajee nehe hoti , lakin mhabet nibhanay ke liaay lefzoon ka bohut ahem hissa hota hai ..rishtoon ko lafzoon ki zarooret hoti hai . or rishton ko ahsin tor sai nibhanay ke liaay amel ke saath bol bhe bohut ahem rol ada kertay hai .


4-Kehtey hain insan ko jab pyar ho jata hai to dunia jahaan ko bhool jata hai..sirf tab aik hee shakhs k khayalon mein gum rehta hai..ap ko yeh baat kis had tak sahi lagti hai ?

soch mai to vohi ferd hota hai lakin dunyia sai baighana nehe hoa ja sakta . app ke dill ke dunyia aik ferd sai abaad ho sakti hai .. lakin app sai wabesta afraad ke liaay to app ko kuch kerna ho ghaa na
mairay khial mai iss baat mai omer or maturity ka dakhil hai ………….khas tor per insaan ki apni soch , or oss ka behaviour bohut roll ada kerta hai .…………

5-Duniya main koi aik rishta jo aapkeh buhat kareeb hai. Aur Kion?

Mairee khala .. aik to bachpin sai mai on ke saath thee . phir onhoon nay mughay bohut mohabet de or kerti hai .. on ki sub sai achi baat ,vo yai thee ke kabhi mughay kissi kaam ko kernay sai roka nehe balkay
Achay or buray ka shaoor diaa ... mai nai apni zindghee ke sabhi lamhoon mai on ko saath piaa .Allah on ko sahet ke saath lambi omer ata karay ..( Ameen )

6-Zindagi mein koi aisa mor’ aya jahan aapko kisi aik rishte ko bhool ker dosra rishta nibhana para ho? Details nahin indirectly bata dein. Kia situation thi aur kia solution nikala aapneh.


Mai yahan nehe hoon …………….


7-Aap Joint family system keh bare mein kia sochte hain? Kia advantages aur disadvantages hain?


acha system hai aghir Dillon mai mohabet , izet ,or ravadaree ho to …….
Lakin aj ke dor mai yah system survive nehe ker pa raha .hassed , keena hirs in sub batoon nai hamay srif apnay app ko sochnay mai lagha dia hai .
maira khial thora farek hai iss barray mai … joint family yai nehe ke hum aik gher mai hi rehtay ho .. bhalay dill kosoon door q na ho . boojh ke terha rishtay nibhay jiaay .aissay mai to naee nasloon ke Dillon mai doori paida hotee hai jaissa ke ubh ho raha hai .
mairee nazer mai joint family vo hai jo door reh ker bhe dill ke qareeb ho .on ko apni zumma daroon ka ahsaas ho . khush raha jiay or dosroon ko bhe khush rehnay dia jiay ..
berhaal her gher ka apna life style hota hai . jo jissay suit karay apna laita hai . bass hamay dosroon ke liaay dushwariaan nehe paida kerna chahiaay .apnay amel ka hissab idher nehe to Allah ke hazoor zaroor daina hai , iss baat ko zahin mai rekhna chahiaay ..


8-Kuch log rone ko chupate hain aur itne sakht ho jate hain keh who rona hi bhool jate hain. Kia aapko lagta hai keh rone mein aapka roab khatam ho jata hai? Mard, aam tor per nahin hote kion keh society neh unhein aisa banaya hai keh who buhat strong hai. Does that mean they can’t cry at all? What do you have to say about it?


mai to bilkul koree hoon . maira chehra sub bata daita hai .. mughay to rona aiy to ro perti hoon. Or otnee he jaldee hans pertee hoon …………
Or merd bhe to insaan hai . Allah nai quderti tor per on ko mazbooti dai rakhee hai .. lakin berhal insaan to vo hai na . ahsaasaat to vo bhe rekhtay hai na .ha aghir rona a jiaay to iss mai aissa kuch burra bhe nehe hai . bass vo ortoon ki terha her chotti baat per rotay nehe hai . iss silslay mai oret merd sai zaeeda emotional hoti hai .


9-Dosti mein kia koi limits hoti hain..agar hoti hain to kitni had tak aur kis terhan ki? Aapki koi aisi dosti jis mein aapneh buhat seekha ho ya koi aia waqiya jis ko aap aaj tak sochte hain.

bilkul ji hote hai .. dosti ki noieat per , dost ki nature per or khud app ke apnay space dainay per . Assan sa forrmula hai islam ka ...........( jo tum ko pasend nehe vo dosroon ke liaay bhe napasend karo )....asanee sai had tay ho ghayee.
bohut saree dostiaan thee .
but hostel life ki 7,8 friends ka group bohut shaitaan thaa. os time ko hum nai bohut enjoy kia. especially aik dost ke saath bohut bonghiaan maree hai .......

10-Ab kuch situations doon gi mein, Aap inka solution batayein.

-Aapkeh ghar wale aapki koi baat nahin maan rahe. Koi bhi ho sakti hai Toh aap kia karein ge? Zid per rahein ge ya unhein araam se manayein ge ya chor dein gey?

Mairee fitret mai zidd bilkul bhe nehe hai . Allah ka shuker hai ke oss nai aisse nature ata ki hai ke jo jitna or jiss qader mill ghiaa . oss per Allah ka shuker ada kia .khud bhe khush rahay or dosroon ko bhe khush rekhna chaha ……………yaai situation mairay liaay nehe …………..


-Aapki shadi hoti hai, Aapki wife aur mom keh beech keh relations ache nahin hain. Is mein aap kia karein ge? Kis tarah un dono ko samjhayein ge aur kaise approach karein ge?

Hai ………………array mairee wife kaissay ho sakkte hai .. pata nehe merd ban ker swal ka javab daina hai …yaa kia hai ..?…………….samgh nehe aiee . khair mai iss ka female version mai answer dai rehe hoon

Mai married hoon . or mughay bhe problems aiee thee . ……kerna kia thaa bass…..
Subh sai pehlay Allah sai maded ki dua ki .. or phir jo Allah or oss kay RASOOL pak nai aik oret ke fraiez batay hai . on ko ada kernay ki koshish ki . poori iman daree sai .. ………mai nai kabhi nehe chaha ke maree zaat mairay husband ko on ke valdain yaa behn,bhahion sai door karay . …..
App apnay zameer ke samnay satisfy ho ke , mai acha ker rehe hoon . start mai zara mshkil hota hai . per himet rakhay insaan ............sometime sila nehe bhe milay to Allah ki raza ki khater app apna kaam kiay jao. To iss sai app ko qalbi sakoon milay ghaa jo ke bohut baree Allah ki namet hai ………or Allah kabhi bhe kisse ferd ka bura nehe chahitta …………or na he….Allah kabhi bhe apnay bandoon ko mauoos kerta hai .
Or raha merdon ke liaay, to on ke liaay bhe mushkil to hota hai . bass zara samghdaree sai kamm lai .. dono kai haqooq ada karay . or her choti baat pai adalet na lagha lai . bv or maa ko khud bhee aik dosray ko berdast kernay ki adet dalnay dai . lakin jahan zarooret ho , vahan hissa bhe lai .. or dono sides ko araam sai alagh sai samghia ja sakta hai .asel mai iss baat ko solve kernay ka koee perfect formula nehe hai .. waqat ke saath compromisess dono sides hi ko kerna chahiaay ...........

-Koi aisa rishta jo aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap buhat achi tareeqe se nibhayein ge. Aur kaise?


Allah ke karem or oss ke Mahboob ke rehmat ke sedqay .......Maa ka ………….coz mai bacho ki behtreen dost banoon ghee ................


-Koi aisa rishta jo Aapko lagta hai keh aaj tak ya ane wale kal mein aap achi tarah se NAHIN nibha payein ge. Aur Kion?

Allah ke karem or oss ke Mahboob ke rehmat shaml-e-haal hoee to aissa koee rishta nehe hai .. ………….

-Dost aur Pyaar keh beech mein kisi aik ko bachana ho toh Kis ko bachayein ge? Aur kion? {Pyaar sirf pyaar hi nahin Saalon ki muhabbat hai aur Dost bhi bachpan ka hai}

dono ferd hi ahem hai . pehlay to mai dono ko qareeb lanay ki koshish karoon ghee . or ikhtalaaf ki reason dhoondh ker ossay solve kernay ki koshish karoon ghee . lakin aghir mai apni poori koshish ke bawjood aissa kernay mai nakaam rehe to phir yakeene tor per apnay pyar ko select karoon ghee . coz maira pyar maira behtreen dost ban sakta hai , ho sakta hai . lakin behtreen dost sai mohabet ho, yai zaroori nehe ............ .

wa alaikum assalam
wah wah
bohat zabardsat jawab diey hain apne
us sawal mein ap ko mard ban ekr he batana tha hehe

khair
bohat ache jawab hain

aur bhi kuch sawal kerna chahongi

hum jab dosre ki feelings se bakhabar hote hain , yehi cheez hummein khatam ker rai hoti hai ander he ander se, k hum nahi jaante wo kia chahta hai /chahti hai , so un ki feelings ko janne k liey hum bohat danger kaam ya keh lein kuch risky cheezein ker jate hain jo relationship per effect kerti hain

so what u think? aisay kiey bina jaan sakta hai insaan ya aisay ker k janega?

[*BlessinG*]

2 weeks fairy k saath mukammal hoye

khush rahiey
Wa Alaikum Assalam