Do u believe in Arrange OR Love Marriage - Page 2

**A_Sayn** · #16 10-08-2008

hmm dono hi sahi hain, jo naseb main ho.

or jaysa smarty luver & frendz nay kaha main us say bilkul agree nahi karta. kay aysi umer hoti hay her chamkti cheez sona lagti hay. jab ap apna her faisla khod kar saktay hain to yeh kuyon nahi, chalain shadi to dor hum main say kitnay log study parents ki marzi say kartay hain wahan app kuyon nahi sochtay kay future kiya hoga jab usper ap ka career depend karta hay. kay jo parents nay kaha to nahi kiya. or isi tarha bohat say fayslay so ap khod faisla karnay ki ahliyat rakhtay hain. or agar kal kuch bura ho jeay to zarori nahi kay apki waja say hay arrange marriage main b yeh ho sakta hay.

and 2nd thing jaysa smarty nay kaha kay kal ko pashtawa na ho to dear pachtaway ki to koi value hi nahi bcoz ap arrange karain ya love agar kamiyab na ho to family apko blame karay ya ap family ko effect to apki ki zindage per hi paray ga. so blame ki koi value nahi imp hay ur life.
or jahan tak parents ki bat ki to agar apni marzi say shadi kartay hian tab b wo apko bad duain nahi daingay dua hi dain gay. or agar love marriage kamiyab na ho to apkay parents apko choor nahi daytay wo tab b apko support karain gay.

or aksar logon ka khiyal hay kay love marriage kamiyab nahi hoti . wel farq sirf itna hay jab ap love marriage kartay hain to app 100% comprise kay liya mentaly ready hotay hian or sometimes family 20% kay liya or in arrange family 100% or ap kabhi thora bohat or kabhi bilkul nahi, agar hum rishton ki qadar or unko unki ahmiyat dain jitna wo deserve kartay hian or thora sa sabar o tahamul karna sekh lain to compromise ki to koi bat hi nahi rahay gi.

**geo jalal** · #17 10-08-2008

Love Merriage is Best

**A_Sayn** · #18 10-08-2008

wo to apkay siggi ko dekh kar lagta hi hay

**humadoon** · #19 10-09-2008

well this is odd...
in this msg most of the female members said they believe in Arrange marriage ...
i didn't get the logic of love after marriage what if u can't love ur partner..so u'll keep on suffering all ur life.................
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do we wait for miracles in life?

**H@roon** · #20 10-09-2008

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Originally Posted by smarty luver

Arrange marriage kyun ke log badal te bohat hain
halat ki waja se
pyaar to donon shaadiyon main khatam ho sakta hai kisi bhi marhallle per
to behter yehi hai ke arrange marriage ho take aage jaa ker bashtawa mat ho apni basand per

wah!!
kiya baat hai..

**Chanchal Chirya** · #21 10-09-2008

hmm.. i aggree with a sayn

aur jo naseeb mein likhi hogi wohi tareekey sey hogi
i don ahe any idea k love marriage achi hai ya arrange coz
mushkiley to har halat mein ati hain

..i have seen ppl failing in love marriage and in arrange marriage both coz naseeb ki baat hai

for me both are okay jis mein Allah behtari rakhey

**abidaawan** · #22 10-09-2008

arrange honi chahey ta k kal ko agr koi masla hota hy ya larai jagra ho to insan ghar walon ko bta saky bulke zimay dar tehra sakta hy laqin agr love marriage ho to phir khud he sub uch jheelna parta hy

**smarty luver** · #23 10-09-2008

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Originally Posted by H@roon

wah!!
kiya baat hai..

ehehe thnx yaaar ;)

**Adil** · #24 10-13-2008

Agar Wo Mil Gayi To Love Marriage...............
Werna To Arrange Marriage .............

Adil added 4 Minutes and 51 Seconds later...

Quote:

Originally Posted by A_Sayn

hmm dono hi sahi hain, jo naseb main ho.

or jaysa smarty luver & frendz nay kaha main us say bilkul agree nahi karta. kay aysi umer hoti hay her chamkti cheez sona lagti hay. jab ap apna her faisla khod kar saktay hain to yeh kuyon nahi, chalain shadi to dor hum main say kitnay log study parents ki marzi say kartay hain wahan app kuyon nahi sochtay kay future kiya hoga jab usper ap ka career depend karta hay. kay jo parents nay kaha to nahi kiya. or isi tarha bohat say fayslay so ap khod faisla karnay ki ahliyat rakhtay hain. or agar kal kuch bura ho jeay to zarori nahi kay apki waja say hay arrange marriage main b yeh ho sakta hay.

and 2nd thing jaysa smarty nay kaha kay kal ko pashtawa na ho to dear pachtaway ki to koi value hi nahi bcoz ap arrange karain ya love agar kamiyab na ho to family apko blame karay ya ap family ko effect to apki ki zindage per hi paray ga. so blame ki koi value nahi imp hay ur life.
or jahan tak parents ki bat ki to agar apni marzi say shadi kartay hian tab b wo apko bad duain nahi daingay dua hi dain gay. or agar love marriage kamiyab na ho to apkay parents apko choor nahi daytay wo tab b apko support karain gay.

or aksar logon ka khiyal hay kay love marriage kamiyab nahi hoti . wel farq sirf itna hay jab ap love marriage kartay hain to app 100% comprise kay liya mentaly ready hotay hian or sometimes family 20% kay liya or in arrange family 100% or ap kabhi thora bohat or kabhi bilkul nahi, agar hum rishton ki qadar or unko unki ahmiyat dain jitna wo deserve kartay hian or thora sa sabar o tahamul karna sekh lain to compromise ki to koi bat hi nahi rahay gi.

Wah Dil Khush Hogaya Asayn .......

**82ROCKER** · #25 10-13-2008

i belive in both . its not about love or arrange marrriage that makes your life beautiful .. its up to you and that other person .. as long as you respect eath other care for each other think before doing anything . talk to each other . you wll allways be fine ... . love is a great great thing .. it can happen before marriage or after .. ..

life is simple . we just make it hard . by our choices

**A_Sayn** · #26 10-13-2008

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Originally Posted by Adil

Agar Wo Mil Gayi To Love Marriage...............
Werna To Arrange Marriage .............

Adil added 4 Minutes and 51 Seconds later...

Wah Dil Khush Hogaya Asayn .......

thankooooooooo

**neena789** · #27 10-13-2008

jo ho jaey wohi achi hai

neena789 added 17 Minutes and 20 Seconds later...

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Originally Posted by humadoon

well this is odd...
in this msg most of the female members said they believe in Arrange marriage ...
i didn't get the logic of love after marriage what if u can't love ur partner..so u'll keep on suffering all ur life.................
....................................
do we wait for miracles in life?

har aik kay sochnay ka apna apna tareeqa hota hai par baat ya hai ka Nikkah main itnee taqatt hoti hia ka wo 2 dillon ko aik dosray kay itnay qreeq lay aey ka wo pori zindagi aik dosray kay sang guzar sakain.....wo RAB jis na humay ya freeza ada kernay ka hukum dia hai tu wo hamara bora kaisa maang sakta hai or ya love marriage hai kia.. ajj kal kay zamanay ka fashion .....kia jab pehlay shadiyan howa kerti thi tu kia love marriages hee howa kerti thien....nae na? tu phir wo kaisay kamyaab hoti thien ...zaher hai sirf or sirf oss mohabet ki wajja say jo aik couple kay beach main hoti hai...or wohi unnay sari zindagi aik dosray say banday rakhti hai werna jahan mohabbet na ho wahan pori zindagi to door ki baat hai,kuch pal guzarna be mushkil ho jata hai .

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**soniaa_jee** · #28 10-14-2008

Arrange...........Marrige is best...........wen ur parents arrange it 4 u...........in case jab app uss Insaan ko jantay ho!!!!!!!!!

**cool_been** · #29 10-15-2008

i preffered Love marriage which should be arranged

**A_Sayn** · #30 10-15-2008

aik teer say do shikar