She's white and im Asian i am afraid to admit i love her

[humadoon]

Dear Friends
I am 25/m from uk, i like a girl who is South African (White) but i am shy and i can't tell her that i love her (i am not sure if i love her or not as well-Oh god im confused), she is my collegue....
i don't know what to do...?

I'll appreciate ur feedback

[Equalizer]

Originally Posted by humadoon

Dear Friends
I am 25/m from uk, i like a girl who is South African (White) but i am shy and i can't tell her that i love her (i am not sure if i love her or not as well-Oh god im confused), she is my collegue....
i don't know what to do...?

I'll appreciate ur feedback

Boy, you are not even sure about yourself. Be yourself. Then look into your heart if she is there or not. Otherwise, forget about her.

[diva loves roy]

first you have to read the signals ...
is she seems intrested or not..
but dont waste your times guesing...
girls like it when the guy is affimative..
tell her b4 its too late, if she said yes then GOOD,is she said no then better now then later.

[humadoon]

Originally Posted by Equalizer

Boy, you are not even sure about yourself. Be yourself. Then look into your heart if she is there or not. Otherwise, forget about her.

Mate i am confused this is first time in my life im having this feeling for someone. i don't wanna go for a one night stand with her i respect her. but i am afraid of my culture and and family which won't accept her...

oyi main ki karaan kuch samajh nayeen anda.........

humadoon added 1 Minutes and 39 Seconds later...

Originally Posted by diva loves roy

first you have to read the signals ...
is she seems intrested or not..
but dont waste your times guesing...
girls like it when the guy is affimative..
tell her b4 its too late, if she said yes then GOOD,is she said no then better now then later.

what if she says no....

humadoon added 3 Minutes and 14 Seconds later...

i think i am phatooo when it comes to girls and love..........

[Equalizer]

O hell with one night stand. Who suggested it? Boy, there is a hell lot of difference between having a crush and falling in love with someone. Diva is right, watchout for the signals and for this you have to be a bit brave. Show some guts and act like a grown up man.

[Miss Choudary]

ahaaan ... All i can say is that first make one thing very clear to urself

That wether you love her or not ... Because spending 8-10 hourss a day with some one ...

May lead to something else which we consider as LOVE ... but that could be attraction ...

Right ... So Ask urself First ... Once you've got ur answer you will find the way to Take the next Step ...

Best of Luck ...................................................................... !!!

[Equalizer]

Originally Posted by Miss Choudary

ahaaan ... All i can say is that first make one thing very clear to urself

That wether you love her or not ... Because spending 8-10 hourss a day with some one ...

May lead to something else which we consider as LOVE ... but that could be attraction ...

Right ... So Ask urself First ... Once you've got ur answer you will find the way to Take the next Step ...

Best of Luck ...................................................................... !!!

Very true.The best advice under the circumstances.

[humadoon]

Guys i am grateful for ur suggestions...i agree with u Miss chuhadry i think it is attraction because the age i am in is like that also i need to see many things like religion and culture......................
I think i'll just move on and listen to my mom who wants me to find a Achi Desi Larki....
i don't know but i don't like arrogant british born desi girls...

[Equalizer]

Originally Posted by humadoon

Guys i am grateful for ur suggestions...i agree with u Miss chuhadry i think it is attraction because the age i am in is like that also i need to see many things like religion and culture......................
I think i'll just move on and listen to my mom who wants me to find a Achi Desi Larki....
i don't know but i don't like arrogant british born desi girls...

Achi desi larki sounds as if you are going to get an achi desi murghi

[humadoon]

Originally Posted by Equalizer

Achi desi larki sounds as if you are going to get an achi desi murghi

She don't mean that in her prospect its about the traditional pakistani or south asian girl who can understand the religious and cultural norms better..


i like this one ...i think ur not a murgi

[Equalizer]

Originally Posted by humadoon

She don't mean that in her prospect its about the traditional pakistani or south asian girl who can understand the religious and cultural norms better..


i like this one ...i think ur not a murgi

you really like this one ?

[humadoon]

Today i spoke with her i saw some signals from her...she is not shy like me i think i'll see some result in coming days..
its funny but we were talking about mix kids..she said that when Pakistani's interact with other races there kids are beautiful like if we mix with black or kids are very attractive and samething if we mix with white..
ha ha ....

i don't know if its attraction or what i can't stop myself now...everything feels so good. i am flying high ..it feels good to be in love...

[miss_riz]

Humm...i think i'm lost or dont know how these forums works.
you said you want a desi one, then you said u cant stop urself...hummm..you dont really know what you want.
just be careful, dont hurt her and yourself as well in all this.
All the best

[In3vitabl3 Soul]

Confusing...................

[Miss Choudary]

Originally Posted by Faiza

Confusing...................

Larkiii Tumhay tou Confuse nahi Hona Chaheyee Naaa ...


kay Ramzan kay saath saath Aqal bhi Gayeeeee