Humsafar by HUM TV - Episode 21

[Kaleem]

[FayMah]

wooooooow zaberdast....
ok apart from this drama's awesomeness....khirad's attitude towards ashar, i think ab ziyada ho raha hai...ok uske saath zyadti hoi but ashar ko b tou saza mili na 4 saal apni bachi k bagair rehne ki...i think kkhirad ko maan jana chahiye tha cuz ITNAA attitude bhi acha nai lagta...usne 4 saal mei apni self respect qaim rakhi, aur ashar bhi uski respect kerta hai but now i think ashar ko ehsas ho gaya hai...i know its just a drama but in reality koi larki aise kare tu mujhe to personally bohat gussa aye..ab self respect aur ego ko apni priority nai banana chahiye..i think happiness comes first..!!

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Yes, you are quite right, this is drama. but usually we people discuss drama as its story infer from out society.
.
AND more important, on such forum where different people can discuss on each drama or any other show, provides the opportunity to share different aspects of psychological, moral, social and cultural.
NOW ... I want to analyse your comments.

First: Khirad (character) was alleged a serious charge. Her husband didn't talk her to verify it. that's why she was so so so so pissed.
Second: Asher didn't know about her kid who is his also.
Third: when they met again for the treatment of their child, even then Asher didn't ask about that allegation.
.
I guess, in the end, they will be together. but for the time being .... all their emotions, responses and attitude are justify.
.
ONLY one thing is objectionable .....
Why Asher didn't ask about the allegation at that time when this was occurred ...? Or sometime later, after all such a serious incident, any person think different possibilities.
Why he didn't ask when they met again ...?
.
Now abb baat aap ke gussey ki krtey hein .......
any girl can put herself in that situation (of Khirad) with such allegations and not being provided a chance from her husband to clarify the reality.
and she gave birth to a child with a charge on her character.
.
WHAT WILL BE THE REACTION ....?
Please, do share what should be the response of such girl (wife) ...

---------- Post added at 02:16 PM ---------- Previous post was at 02:12 PM ----------

samander wala scene awesome tha..... next will be the last one..... i will miss HUMSAFAR

why you will miss HAMSAFAR.
You can choose any one as a HAMSAFAR.

[Cuteflower]

wooooooow zaberdast....
ok apart from this drama's awesomeness....khirad's attitude towards ashar, i think ab ziyada ho raha hai...ok uske saath zyadti hoi but ashar ko b tou saza mili na 4 saal apni bachi k bagair rehne ki...i think kkhirad ko maan jana chahiye tha cuz ITNAA attitude bhi acha nai lagta...usne 4 saal mei apni self respect qaim rakhi, aur ashar bhi uski respect kerta hai but now i think ashar ko ehsas ho gaya hai...i know its just a drama but in reality koi larki aise kare tu mujhe to personally bohat gussa aye..ab self respect aur ego ko apni priority nai banana chahiye..i think happiness comes first..!!

خرد کا اشعر کو ایٹی ٹیوڈ دکھانا ضروری ہے کیونکہ وہ اسے معاف نہیں کر رہا بلکہ معافی اور اپنی سو کالڈ محبت کی چادر میں لپٹا ہوا اپنا احسان اسے دے رہا ہے۔ جو کہ خرد جیسی سیلف ریسپیکٹ والی لڑکی کے لئے ناقابلِ قبول ہے۔ اشعر کو جو سزا ملی اس کے کئے کی ملی۔ اس نے اپنی بیوی پہ شک کیوں کیا؟ جب وہ اسے فون پر فون کرتی تھی تو کیوں اس کی بات نہیں سنی۔ اب خرد کی باری ہے کہ وہ اشعر کی بات نہ سنے۔ خرد اگر ایسے ہی اس کے ساتھ رہنے پر راضی ہو گئی تو اشعر اسے وہ عزت اور مان کبھی نہیں دے گا جو کہ خرد کا حق ہے۔ اشعر یہ حق خرد کو تب ہی دے سکے گا جب اسے ساری حقیقت خود سے پتہ چلے نہ کہ خرد اسے اپنی بے گناہی کا بتائے۔ مجھے اس وقت کا نتطار ہے جب اشعر اپنی ماں کے سامنے کھڑا ہو کر اپنی اور اپنی بیوی کی ساڑھے چار سالوں کی اذیت کا حساب لے گا۔

[smd]

What a DRAMA??? I'm gonna miss this.Start to End It seems real and above of all lesson to learn for Women.Its not wrong to say that Sarmad shows A Women can be Stronger than a men especially in Pakistani society . However,much strong she makes Ashar to break his silence.

[aamirsq]

Next episode is going to be the LAST one and i hope the director can end this drama with a good lesson!!!

[alizaymalik]

superb drama directed by sarmad.....all actors do good job.but naveen waqar do her charecter best...

[Amna...!!!]

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Yes, you are quite right, this is drama. but usually we people discuss drama as its story infer from out society.
.
AND more important, on such forum where different people can discuss on each drama or any other show, provides the opportunity to share different aspects of psychological, moral, social and cultural.
NOW ... I want to analyse your comments.

First: Khirad (character) was alleged a serious charge. Her husband didn't talk her to verify it. that's why she was so so so so pissed.
Second: Asher didn't know about her kid who is his also.
Third: when they met again for the treatment of their child, even then Asher didn't ask about that allegation.
.
I guess, in the end, they will be together. but for the time being .... all their emotions, responses and attitude are justify.
.
ONLY one thing is objectionable .....
Why Asher didn't ask about the allegation at that time when this was occurred ...? Or sometime later, after all such a serious incident, any person think different possibilities.
Why he didn't ask when they met again ...?
.
Now abb baat aap ke gussey ki krtey hein .......
any girl can put herself in that situation (of Khirad) with such allegations and not being provided a chance from her husband to clarify the reality.
and she gave birth to a child with a charge on her character.
.
WHAT WILL BE THE REACTION ....?
Please, do share what should be the response of such girl (wife) ...

---------- Post added at 02:16 PM ---------- Previous post was at 02:12 PM ----------


why you will miss HAMSAFAR.
You can choose any one as a HAMSAFAR.

I do understand her situation and any girl might go for the same attitude as khirad's...but you tell me if any girl in reality has no parents no sibling no ANY relation no money not even her daughter...she lost her job...( in drama khirad can survive ) but in reality I THINK a single and alone girl cannot survive ..after 1 year or 2 year or maybe 5 year she will regret of wht she did (of not going back to ashar )...!!
and ya its not like , if ashar was requesting her to come back she should have never agree at the same moment..but after 2 - 3 requests ...but my point is she should go back to asher if not now then after few requests ...tentrums u know ( but of khirad's attitude it seems like she will NEVER go to him )...
and yaa we should not see the half empty glass but we should see the other half glass full of water.... I hope you get my point...

[seerat123]

khirad ne bilkul theek jawab diya asher ko thoray bohat tu nakhray dekhanay chahiye khirad ko nice episode

[FayMah]

I do understand her situation and any girl might go for the same attitude as khirad's...but you tell me if any girl in reality has no parents no sibling no ANY relation no money not even her daughter...she lost her job...( in drama khirad can survive ) but in reality I THINK a single and alone girl cannot survive ..after 1 year or 2 year or maybe 5 year she will regret of wht she did (of not going back to ashar )...!!
and ya its not like , if ashar was requesting her to come back she should have never agree at the same moment..but after 2 - 3 requests ...but my point is she should go back to asher if not now then after few requests ...tentrums u know ( but of khirad's attitude it seems like she will NEVER go to him )...
and yaa we should not see the half empty glass but we should see the other half glass full of water.... I hope you get my point...

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leave all other things, highlighted sentence is GREAT. Mazaaa aaa giyaaa ......!!!!!!!

---------- Post added at 08:03 PM ---------- Previous post was at 08:01 PM ----------

I do understand her situation and any girl might go for the same attitude as khirad's...but you tell me if any girl in reality has no parents no sibling no ANY relation no money not even her daughter...she lost her job...( in drama khirad can survive ) but in reality I THINK a single and alone girl cannot survive ..after 1 year or 2 year or maybe 5 year she will regret of wht she did (of not going back to ashar )...!!
and ya its not like , if ashar was requesting her to come back she should have never agree at the same moment..but after 2 - 3 requests ...but my point is she should go back to asher if not now then after few requests ...tentrums u know ( but of khirad's attitude it seems like she will NEVER go to him )...
and yaa we should not see the half empty glass but we should see the other half glass full of water.... I hope you get my point...

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Reasonable analysis of reality. you depict the real pic.

[innocent girl 12]

nice drama................