MAQSAD-E-HAYAT (A Practical Approach)

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MAQSAD-E-HAYAT

Maqsad-e-hayat ya zindagi ka maqsad, bohat baar “Nisaabi wa Ghair Nisabi” kitaboon mein ye Lafz nazron se guzra Lakin “Khayal k Dareechon” pe koi dastak na de saka…

Bachpan se parhty aaye k “Baba-e-Qaum” ka Maqsad aik Aazaad “Pakistan” tha aur unhon ne ye “Maqsad” bari Jan-Fishani se hisil kiya…
Yeh Sachai aur es tarah ki kuch aur Sachayon ne “Us Waqt” zehn ko Ghanghora jab “Amli Zindagi” mein kuch Mushkalat se samna hoa…

Us Waqt thori ghabraahat bhi hoi aur Hairaani bhi k Choti Choti Mushkalaat insaan ko es qadar “Paraganda” karti hein aur “Dunya” k Naqshay pe ye jo Bari Bari Eijadaat ka sehra hy aur Bary Bary logon ki Himmat ka tazkara hy jinhon ne ZERO se start lekar apne Kaam ko Us Urooj tak Ponhchaya Jahan pe “Amlan” Ginti Na-Mumkin nhi to “Mushkil” mein zaroor par jaati hy…

Asr-e-haazir mein “Stephin Hawking” jo Aik mazoor insaan (Scientist) hy, us ne aik bistar pe pary howe dunya ki behtari mein “Zabardast tareeqy” se apny “Nazriun” se hissa daala to hamary jaisay insaano ka output to DUGNA hona chahye kiun k ALLAH ne Humein Tamam Jismani-o-Zehni Quwaton se Nawaza hy…

Ye saari baatein sochty howe yahi khayal demagh mein hamaisha aata raha k koi to aisa “Tareeqa” hoga, koi to aisa “Raasta” hoga jis pe chal k ye log “Kaamyaab” howe.

Enhi Lamhon mein aik aur baat demagh mein “Goya” hoi k en “Kamyaab Logon” mein Sirf “Musalmaan” hi nhi hein balkeh aik bohat “Bari Ta’daad” Ghair-Muslim logon ki bhi hy jis se ye to “Tay” hoa k Sirf “Duain” {Jo kisi bhi kamyaabi ka lazmi Juzw ye unsar(element) hein} hi wo hathyaar nhi hein jin se ye “Tamam Ma’arky” Sar howe balkeh kuch aur bhi hy jo es mein Shamil hy…

Esi Tarz pe jab Research ki (Jo k abhi chal rahi hy aur jis mein se ye tehreer li hy Maine) to Hairaan-Kun Nataij (Kam-az-kam mere liye) samne aaye…

Us research ka “Part 1” JISY MAIN“Life Time Management” kehta hon k taur par chand “Rahnuma Usool” mere samne aaye jin pe chal “Kamyaabiun” ka Darwaza khola ja sakta hy...(I did it and still doing it ALHUMDULILLAH)…

Aaye UN tamam “Usolon” ko Aik nazar dekhty hein jin ki waja se main aur mere kuch dost Pichly 6 saalon se har Man-Chahi Kamyaabi hasil karty aaye hein…

Chand Zaroori Hidayaat:

1. Jab Shoro karny ka “Irada” karein to aik “Copy & Ball Pen” sath rakh lein.
2. Kuch Aisy “Intazamaat” baroy-e-Kaar lain k koi Enhimaak mein Mudakhlat ka Baa’es na ho.
3. Jaisay Jaisay steps/Usool Chalte jain, Har usool k Ikhtetaam pe Apna “Road Map” bana lein.
4. Aakhir mein En “tamam” Usolon ka (jo dekhny mein intehai mushkil-o-Daqeeq lagty hein) aik “Khulasa” tayar ho jaye ga aik “Plan” ki surat mein jis per “Amal” karna hoga…
5. En tamam Usolon par “Aik Khas” waqt k baad nazar doraty rahein ta keh Yaad rahein...

Usool No: 1 (Ahdaaf/goals)

Sab se pehly Apni Zaat se Kuch “Sawaalaat” karte hein
Sab se pehla sawaal “HUM apne aap ” se ye karein k “Hum” zindagi mein chahty kya hein?
Hum Kon Hon?

Hum “Zindagi” mein kahan ja rahy hein?

Humein kya “Hasil” karna hy?

Hamary “Personal Goals” kya hein?

Hamary “Self Development Goals” kya hein?

Hamary “Family Goals” kya hein?

Hamary “Professional Goals” kya hein?

Bahasiat Musalmaan “Jo Zimaa Daarian” Humein nebhani hein”ghar mein” aur “Ghar se bahr”, un k sath Hum kya karna chahty hein?
1. Hum un Tamam “Ahdaaf” ki aik List banain gy.

2. Hasb-e-Zaroorat Apni zaati aur family goals ko Bil-Tarteeb A,B,C k numbers de dein.

3. Hamary tamam Goals “Measureable” hony chahyen (Misaal k taur par Hum kisi Degree ko apna Maqsad banaty hein tu sath mein Likhna hoga keh “kitne Saalon” mein Hum ne wo degree hasil karni hy)

4. Ab Hum ne “Aik Mohtaat” Andaza lagana hy k Hum ne jo “Measurement” rakhi hy, wo Haqeeqi hy? Kahin aisa to nhi k Hum “MSc Artificial-Intelligence” ko 6 maah mein “Mukamal” karny ka “Tahaya” kar k baithy hein? Agar aisa hi hy to Hum apne Goals ki Hudood ko “Haqeeqi Hudood” mein ley aain.

5. Ab Hum Un “Goals” ko haasil karny ki “Raahein” likhein gy yani “Strategy” banain gy.

Stretegy Banany ka Behtareen Tareeqa (Mera Zaati Tareeqa)

Hamary goals jis Sector se hy us sector ki “Best Practices” ki Pairwi Karin. Misaal k taur pe agar kisi Degree mein 4 CGPA laina hy tu us zimn mein Class Presentations, Mid term, Final Exam, Research study,Team work aur Isateza k sath aacha Bartao un chand Pehloun mein se hein jo achy Scores ki zamanat hoty hein.
6. Usool No.1 k aakhir mein HUM aik “Master Plan” tayar karein gy jis pe humein chalna hy. Lakin Hum waqtan-fa-waqtan es “Master Plan” ka jaiza lein gy ta k “Tabdeeliun” ka mushahida hota rahy….

Usool No: 2 (Amli Sorat ki Tarteeb/Organised plns for Actions)
1. Hamaisha “Plans” ko Likh kar rakhein, Kiun k Jo cheese “Qalam” se nikalti hy, wo Demagh mein Pukhta hoti hy.

2. Kisi bhi Ehm kaam ko “Plan” k baghair karna aik “Shadeed ghalti” hy jis ka Nateeja Nakaami, Pareshani aur waqt k Zia ki surat mein nikalta hy.

3. Apne Goals ko hasil karny waly “Plan” ka Aik aik Juzw bhi likhain (Misal k taur pe Agar 4 CGPA hasil karny mein Class Presentations aik “Ehm Kirdaar” ada karti hein to Hamari nazar “Presentations k Usool, Un ki Rehearsals, Group Discussions, Eijaad ki Takneek (Innovation Management), Hamry Topic K “mawaad” k liye Research study aur Mukhtalif logon se “Mashwary/consultation” par honi chahye…En tamam Baaton ko Alehda Alehda Likh kar in par Soch-o-amal k Ghory Dorany Hongy…

4. Us k baad Konse “Kaam” Hum pehly karein gy aur konse “Baad” mein, Un ko Marhala Waar likh lein gy.

5. Yaad rahy k Marhala waar Tarteeb mein Hum “Ziada Ehm Cheezon” ko pehly aur “Kam Ehm Cheezon” ko baad mein rakhein gy.

En 2 Usoolon ka Aik “Chota Naqsha/small map” hy, Hum en ko “Sochna, Planning karna aur Likhna/Thinking, Planning and writing” bhi keh sakty hein…



Usool No: 3 (Tajzia/Analysis)
1. Aik baar phir Yaad rahy k koi bhi “Kaam Shoro” karny se pehly uski “List” banana hy.

2. Us List mein Har Din aur Har Hafty (Week) ki Tafseel hogi

Zaroori Note: Agar Hum “Daily List” banaty hein to Hamara ka “La-Shaouri Demagh/Sub-Concious Mind” us pe sochna shoro kar deta hy.
3. Hamaisha aik “list” hi Humein bata sakti hy k Hum “ES WAQT KAHAN” hein…

4. Hamaisha aik “List” hi Humein bata sakti hy k “Ziada Ehm” kya hy aur “Kam Ehm” kya hy?

5. Jab Hum apni list pe majoud koi kaam “Mukamal” kar laity hein to Es se humein aik “Kamyaabi ka Ehsaas” hota hy jo apne HUM mein aik “Khushi” hy. Kiun k Khushi kisi Khayal ya amli qadam ka “Taraqi Mandaana” ehsaas hy.

6. Hamaisha yaad rakhein “Kamyabi” k usolon mein se aik usool hy kisi bhi kaam ko shoro karny se pehly “Choty Choty” Hisson mein Baant laina…

Usool No: 4 (Tarjeehat Tay Karna/Set Priorities)

Aaye apne HUM se kuch Sawalaat karty hein
1. Hum ne jin kaamon ki “List” banai hy un mein se konsa kaam Zaroori hy aur konsa “ghair Zaroori” (Misaal k taur par Hum net pe kisi khas Topic ki “kitaabein” Talash kar rahy hein, Usi talash k doraan humein kuch aisi “Kitaabein” bhi milain gi jo “Dil-chusp” to hongi lakin “Hamari Talash” se “Munasbat” nhi rakhti hongi. Hum Un ka “link” likh lein gy aur Apne asal kaam ki taraf “Tawaju” Mabzool karein gy. Agar un mein “Gehrai” ki had tak “ghusne” ki koshish karein gy to Asal Maqsaad “Oghal” ho jaye ga.

2. Hamari kisi “Nakaami” k 100% Awamil mein 80% Awaamil ki waja chand bari wajoohat hoti hein aur 20% awamil k peachy “Beesiun/Many” choti wajoohaat…Hum un 80% wali Bari wajoohat ko talsh karein gy aur nazar mein rakhein gy. Es ko hum 80/20 rule/Usool (Pareto Analysis) bhi kehty hein.

1. HUM Hamaisha Apne “Ehtihai Ehm Goals/Tasks” ko Madde-Nazar rakhein gy….
2. Hum “Ehtihai Ehm Goals/Tasks” par soch sakty hein k es ka asar “Hamari Zindagi” par kya parny wala hy? Kiun k ye saari Mehnat usi silsaly ki hi to hy. Masalan
   
   • Agar Hum Graduate hein aur Masters Degree hasil kar leity hein tu Es ka asar zindagi par kya hoga?
   
   
   
   
   • Agar Mojouda Contract Hasil kar laity hein to Company/business ki kis Qadar Progress hogi?
   
   
   
   
   
   
   • Agar Bhai ki Achi Job/Business ho jaaye to Family par es k kya Asraat honge?

Usool No: 5 (Quwat-e-Irtekaaz/Concentration)
1. Hum Hamaisha seekhny ki koshish karein gy k kis kaam mein Hamari Tawaju kaisay ban sakti hy? (Misaal k taur par, Mere aik dost Group study mein Parhny se “mutmaen/satisfied” hoty hein aur doosry akaily parhny se aur dono k nataij apni jaga behad shandaar hein)

2. Yaad rakhein “Kaamyabiun” ka Irtekaaz k sath “Barah-e-Raast” taluq hota hy kiun k Hum demagh mein aik kaam rakhty hein aur usko “Paya-e-Takmeel” tak ponhchaty hein.

3. Jab bhi HUM kisi kaam ko apne “Iraady” se baghair kisi k “Sonpny/kehny” se shoro karty hein to HUM mein aik “Umang/Internal Force” jag jaati hy.


Yahan pe agar HUM en 5 Usoolon ka “Khulasa” dekhein to ye Ahdaaf (Goals), Mansooba Bandi (Planning), Tajziya (Analysis), Tarjehaat (Priorities), aur Irtekaaz (Concentration) hein.

• Aaye Usool 6 par jaany se pehly HUM apne aap se Chand Sawalaat karty hein

1. Hamary Paanch Saala (5 years) goals kya hein?

2. Un ko hasil karny k Plans kya hein?

3. Humein kis kaam se “Mohabbat” hy ya HUM konsa kaam karna “Pasand” karty hein.

4. Aur konsa “Ghair Zaroori” kaam Hum kar rahy hein jo Humein nhi karna chahye.

5. Es k baad HUM “Type A” k goals ki tarteeb dekhain gy, HUM en ko A1, A2, A3 ya Hasb-e-mansha tarteeb de sakte hein.


5 Marahil:

1. Apne goals ka Intekhaab karein
2. Apni Tarjeehaat banain
3. Apni Tarjehaat ko choty choty Hisson mein Taqseem karein
4. Apni tarjehaat ko Dobara Tarteeb dein (Priortize karein)
5. Un par amal karein

Usool No: 6 (Tawareekh aur Inamaat/Dead lines and Rewards)
1. Ye baat zehn mein rakhein k agar koi “kaam” karein gy to kya hoga aur Agar nhi karein gy to kya hoga?

2. Jab bhi koi kaam “Mukamal” karein to HUM apne aap ko Es ka “Inaam” Zaroor dein (Misal k taur pe mera aik dost har kaam ki takmeel par “Shukraany k Nawafil” ada karta hy aur doosra “Aik Achi Documentary” dekhta hy). YE BEHAD ZAROORI HY.

3. Apny har Kaam mukamal karny ki “Tawareekh” likhein…

4. Yaad rakhein jab HUM “Tawareekh” likhty hein to Humary “Jism” ka “Mudafiti Nizaam” (Enforcing System) Jaag jata hy…

Usool No: 7 (Waqt ki Kitaab/Time Log)

Aaye HUM apne aap se chand sawalaat karty hein
1. Hamara “Sara Waqt” kahan chala jata hy?

2. Kya hum Waqt ko “Minutes” mein Ginty hein? Ji han Ziada Kamyaab log waqt ko “Minutes” mein guzarty hein, Kamyab log Waqt ko “Ghanton mein aur Un se neechy k log waqt ko Hafton, Maheenon aur Saalon ki Nazar se Dekhty hein.

3. Aik “Aosat/Average Demagh” ka aadmi waqt ko Subah Sham k hisaab se dekhta hy aur “Aosat/average demagh se kuch behtar Aadmi” waqt ko Ghanton mein dekhta hy.
Note: Hum mein se 70% log “Waqt ki kami” ka rona rooty hein aur “nhi jaanty” k Un ka Waqt Kahan Jaata hy.

Agar HUM aisa nhi karein gy to “Asal Raastey” se door nikal jaayein gy.

Usool No: 8 (Gumaan)
1. Hamaisha “Urgent VS Important” ko Maddenazar rakhein. “Fori Kaam” ko pehly sar anjaam deina chahye.

2. Hamaisha apne “Kaam” ki Ehmiat ka ehsaas karein, Esi waja se HUM en tamam Cheezon k jaldi “Aadi” ho Jain gy.

Usool No: 9 (Samna Karna/Delegate)
1. Mushkalat se ghabrain nhi un ka Samna karein kiun k jab tak samna nhi karein gy tab tak hal nhi nikal paye ga.

2. Kisi bhi “Mushkil” ko “Mushkil” na samghein balkeh “Aik Challenge” samghein aur Qubool karein.

3. Ye Zaroor Yaad Rakhein k “HUM ” sab kaamon mein “Champion” nhi ban sakty, HAsb-e-zaroorat doosry logon ki madad/Mashwara laina Seekhain

4. AGAR HUM har kaam khud karna Shoro kar dein gy to “Hamari ” Taraqi k “Mawaqey/Chances” kam hoty jain gy aur Waqt bhi “Ziada” kharch hoga. Es “Zemn” mein chand sawallat ka “Jaiza” laity hein

1. Sab se pehla sawaal k “HUM” karna kya chah rahy hein?
2. Es k baad “Es Kaam” ko karny k liye “SAHI AADMI” ka Intekhaab?
3. Es k baad “US AADMI” ka followup karein/Us par “Check” bhi rakhein
4. Hamaisha “Khayali Pulao” se door rahein aur “AMLI IQDAMAAT” pe tawaju dein

Note:Koi kaam us waqt tak “Paaya-e-Takmeel” tak nhi ponhchta jab tak us k karny waly par “Check & Balance” na ho. Agar ho bhi jaye to “Taraqi ki sharah/progress % mein “Wazeh farq” hota hy.


Usool No: 10 (Mulaqaatein/Meetings)
1. Hum apna 75% waqt “Mulaqaaton” pe kharch karty hein, Ye Mulaqaatein 2 hisson mein hein jin mein “Ghar k Andar” ya “GHAR se bahr” shamil hein.

2. Kisi had tak “Ghar k andar” aur Ghar se Bahr (be-had zaroori) “Mulaqaat” ka “Maqsad” hona zaroori hy.

3. Agar HUM kisi “Haqeeqi Kaam” k silsily mein kisi se milty hein to Hamaisha apne “Maqsad” pe nazar rakhein aur “Fuzool Waqt” zaye na karein.

4. Hamaisha “Mulaqaat” se pehly “Uska MAqsad” apne zehn mein rakhein

5. Hamaisha “Waqt ki Pabandi” karein, Na “khud” kisi ko “Intezaar” ki zehmat dein aur na hi Beja “Kisi ka Intezaar” karein.

Usool No: 11 (Interrptions/Mudakhlat)
1. Phone Agar zaroori nhi hy to attend na karein ya Attend kar k maazrat kar lein.

2. HUM caller ko us ki Ehmait k mutabiq baad mein Call back bhi kar sakte hein

3. Agar Hum bohat Zaroori kaam (2,3 Hrs) kar rahy hein to Phone “Viberation” pe laga kar kisi Drawer mein rakh dein.

4.Call ko “Answering Machine” pe bhi dala ja sakta hy

5. “Walking Visitors” se hamaisha bachein (Yaar main Idher se Guzar raha tha, Socha milta jaon)

6. For Office People: Agar koi “Walking Visitor” office mein aaye to “Foran” uth khary hon aur Usy se sorry kar k bahr Kisi kaam k liye nikal jaain (Something Already pending outside). Wo walking visitor “Aainda” Parhaiz kary ga.

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Usool No: 12 (Key Result Areas/Montakhab Nataij k Pehlo)
1. Wo konse “Key Results Areas” hein jin pe Tawaju se “Hamara “Business” barh sakta hy, Ya wo konse “Key Result Areas” hein jin ki waja se Humein “Hire” kiya gaya hy ya wo konse “Key Result areas” hein jin pe “Tawaju” dainy k baad “Matlooba Taleemi Grade” hasil ho saky ga?

2. Konsi “cheezain” Business/Job/Taleem mein “Taraqi” ka Ba’es Ban sakti hein?

3. Hamaisha “Duties/Workings” pe hi nahi balkeh “Results” pe bhi tawaju rakhein k HUM “Kuch Hasil” kar pa rahy hein k nhi?

4. Agar “Hum” apni Job/Business se apni Zarooriaat poori nhi kar pa rahy to “Ziada” kaisay kama sakty hein?

5. Har Job/Business/Study k kuch “Core Functions” aur kuch “Secondary Functions” hoty hein. HUM hamaisha “pehly Core Functions” pe Tawaju dein gy.

Note: Apne Boss/Teacher k pass jain aur Un Kaamon ki List le jain jo kar chuky hein/kar rahy hein aur Ye List Boss/Teacher ko de dein aur Un se pochein k en mein se “High Priority Areas” konse hein?

Jawab “Hamaisha” Hairaan Kun hoga kiun k “Hamari Tarjehaat” aur UNKI Tarjeehaat mein Bohat bara Khala/Gap nazar aaye ga. Ye din “Haqeeqat Shanasi” k liye hota hy.

Usool No:13 (Batching Tasks/Tarjeehaat ki Group Bandi)
1. Apni Zimma Daariun/Responsibilities ko Jama Kar lein/Groups bana Lein

2. Ab apni “Learning Curve” Banain/ka Jaiza lein (For Advance Users)

3. Hamaisha koshish karein k “Aik work Group” ko start karein aur khatam kar lein.

4. Multi-Tasking se bohat baar sahi results aaty hein aur kai baar “Nuqsaan-Deh” bhi saabit hoti hy jab tamam Tasks k average Nataij/Results bhi nhi aaty.

5. Rozana “Kaamon” ki Group Bandi Hamari Raftaar mein “Behad” Izafa karegi.

Usool No:14 (Neatness/Cleanliness/Safai)
1. Hamaisha apne “Ird Gird” k Mahol ko saaf rakhein (Jahan tak Hamary bas mein ho)

2. Es se hamari “Kaam karny ki Salahiat” 20 se 40 % barh jati hy.

3. Hamaisha “apni Cheezein” sahi arrangement pe rakhien

4. Jis cheese ko jahan se uthain, wahin pe wapas rakhein, Es se HUM “Disciplined” bhi honge aur Sakoon bhi pain gy

Usool No:15 (Waqt K Tukry/Pieces of Time)
1. Aik Baar phir “Hamaisha” zaroori kaam pehly karein

2. Waqt k Tukry (30---60---90 mins) kar lein

3. Es Tukry mein ‘’Apne Intehai ’’zaroori kaam’’ pe tawaju dein

4. Aisa karny se ‘’Kaamon’’ k Results mein ‘’Be-panah’’ Izafa hota hy

Usool No:16 (Transition Time/Self Development Time)
1. Khary Rehny k liye Ziada Seekhain/Learn more to stay

2. Har ‘’Field’’ mein Aainda 5 se 7 Saalon mein ‘’Ilm’’ ki Dugni/Double Miqdaar chahye hogi kuch ‘’hasil’’ karny k liye

3. Rozana ‘’1/2 ya 1 Ghanta’’ kuch Parhny/Seekhny k liye zaroor Sarf karein

Note: Jo ‘’Articles’’ Humein pasand hon, Un ki aik File bana lein, Aur Doraan-e-safer ‘’Sirf Unhi Articles’’ ko parha karein.

Usool No:17 (Telephone; Not Ufone)
1. A powerful Business tool

2. If On Duty/Study, Hamaisha Call Uthny k baad Pochein k ‘’Main aap k liye kya kar sakta hon’’

3. Hamaisha ‘’Zaroori’’ Calls ka agenda/Fehrest bana lein.

Note: Hamaisha ‘’Weekly important Calls’’ ki aik List banain aur Sath mein ‘’MAqsad’’ tehreer kar lein. Us k Baad calls karein. Es se aik to hum calls karna bholty nhi aur doosra Formal Bol Chaal k sath ‘’Asal Maqsad’’ hasil hota hy.


Usool No:18 (Waqt Ki Pabandi/Punctuality)
1.Hamaisha ‘’Waqt Ki Pabandi’’ karein, Es se Hamari Pehchaan bhi Bany gi aur Faida to zaroor hoga.

2. Waqt ki Pabandi hi Har ‘’Kamyabi’’ ka Bunyaadi Usool hy.

3. Waqt ka ‘’1^st Half’’ (Subah Fajar se Lekar Lunch Time Tak) bohat Ehm hota kiun k Us waqt ‘’Demaghi Tawanayan’’ Urooj par hoti hein.

4. ‘’Lunch’’ Utna karein Jitni Zaroorat hy. Zaroorat se zaida khana ‘’Susti’’ ka Baes Banta hy aur Beemariun ko bhi dawat deta hy.

Usool No: 19 (Kaam mein Aasani/Work Simplification)
1. Hamaisha apne ‘’Kaamon’’ ko Systemize kar lein/ Un ko Apni Life k Mutabiq Dhalein na K Life ko Un k Mutabiq (‘’Output’’ Hasil karein apne Tareeqy se)

2. Be FASTER, EASIER, CHEAPER, QUICKER and BETTER

3. i. Work Longer ii. Work Faster iii. Do Important Things iv. Do best what you know v. TEAM WORK

Usool No:20 (Saying ‘’NO’’/Mana Kar dena)
1. Early and Often

2. NO/Nhi Kehna Seekhein (Meetha ‘’ Mazarti Lehja’’ hi Best Policy hy)

3. Saary Kaam ‘’Hamary’’ karny k nhi hoty (Madad Karna Achi baat hy Lakin Har waqt Sath Waly uncle aa k kahin Asaad/Waqar/Ali beta, Ye Kaam to kar dena aur Sahib Jee Door Pary Shehr k Doosry Kony mein Apni ‘’Books’’ ko CHOR k…Hum Isy Baad mein Karny ko keh sakty hein Atleast)

Usool No:21 (Tawazun/Balance)
1. Hamaisha ‘’Apni Sehat’’ aur Sakoon ko Madde-Nazar Rakhein Kiun k ‘’Tandrusti Hazar Nemat hy’’

2. Apna Waqt ‘’Family aur Dooston’’ k sath bhi Guzarein

3. ‘’Surprising Plans’’ Bana lein apni Family aur Dooston k liye

4. Sakoon ka ‘’Behtareen Zaria’’ ALLAH ka zikr hy. Deeni Taleemat ko Apne ‘’Schedule’’ mein zaroor Jaga dein…

5. Koi ‘’Aik Waqt’’ (With in 3/6 Months) mein Apna Jaiza Lein k Deen aur Dunya mein Kahan Khary hein. Dono mein Tawazun rakhein aur Az-Sar-e-Nao apni Hikmat-e-Amli ka Jaizi lein.

MORAL:

Ye Tamam Usool ‘’1 Time Exercise’’ hein. Aik Baar ‘’Tawaju’’ se Har Usool ko Parh k ‘’Apna Laih AMal/Road Map’’ Bana lein tu es tarah ‘’AIK ONE PAGE SUMMARY’’ HAMARY hathon mein aa jaye gi. Bas us k Baad Sab ‘’Aasaan’’ lagny lagy ga.

Agar ho saky to kisi Bhai/Behn/Dost ko apne sath mila lein. Mil kar kaam karny se Sab ‘’Aik Doosry’’ ka Hosla barhaty hein aur Aik Doosry se pochty bhi hein. Es Tarah kaam mein ‘’Susti’’ aur Bad-Dili dakhil nhi hoti. (Kisi Aisay ko sath na Milain jo Pochny ki Bajaye Es ‘’Summary’’ ko Fazool Qarar de kar Bad-dil karayJ

Chand Bunyadi Baatein:
1. Ye Saari ‘’Taraqian’’ jo aaj Jadeed Dunya mein ho rahi hein, Ye Islam ki ‘’Marhoon-e-Minnat hein. Kiun k Unheon ne Hamary Usoolon ko Apna Liya.

2. ALLAH kisi ki Mehnat ko Zai nhi karty, Nataij Bahar haal Hamary HAQ mein honge INSHALLAH

3. Hamaisha ‘’ALLAH’’ se Sajdon mein Apni aur Baqi Logon ki Kamyabi ki ‘’Duain’’ Magnein. Es se ‘’Internal Force’’ bhi barhti hy aur Yaqeen bhi ‘’Pukhta’’ hota hy.

4. Hamaisha Maal, JISM aur ILM ki Zakat ka Khayal rakhein, Kabhi ‘’Nakaami’’ Pass bhi nhi Phatky gi.

5. Kisi ‘’Aik Islami’’ Kitaab k Rozana 10 Page (as comfortable) Mokhtas kar lein to Saal mein HUM 365x10 pages kam-o-Baish parh lein gy. (Sab se Pehly Quraan-e-Majeed With Tarjuma/Tafseer aur Sahi Bukhari Shareef ka Mutalia Karein, Yaqeenan Soch k Naye Jahan Khulein gy)

6. Qudrat k Asolon ko Samghein. SHUKAR ka nateeja TARAQI/RIZQ mein Izafa, Zina ka Nateeja Rizq ka Band hona, Nasha se Tamam Raazon ka Faash hona, Bad-Nazri se Kaano aur Aankhon se Baseerat ka Chaly jana/‘’MAZAHIR-e-QUDRAT’’ ka na dekhai dena aur DILON pe Mohr lag jana; aur TOBA se tamam Darwaazon ka Khulna, Dil ka Saaf hona LAZMI hota hy.

7. Har ‘’Din’’ Khas hota hy. Har din koi Aik ‘’Naiki’’ pakrein aur ‘’EHD’’ karein k aaj wohi karein gy. ‘’AGAR AIK DIN’’ Ghoot na Boolein gy to Aakhir Kaar Waqt k sath sath ye Aadatein ‘’Pukhta’’ ho jaye gi.

8. ZINDAGI ‘’Cheezon’’ ka nhi, Ravayon ka ‘’Majmooa’’ hy, Cheezon ko ‘’Behtar’’ Karny se pehly ‘’Rawaye’’ Behtar Karein, ‘’Cheezain’’ apne aap Theek ho jain gi.

Aakhir mein Yahi ‘’Dua’’ hy keh ALLAH hum sab ko Hamari ‘’AUQAAT’’ k Mutabiq nhi Bal keh APNI SHAN-E-KARIMI aur SHAN-E-RAHIMI k Mutabiq Ata Farmain (Aameen) Agar Kisi ko En Usoolon se Koi Faida ho to Mere HAQ mein DUA zaroor karein..

References:

1. Lynda Time Management

2. Change Zone’s Achievement Management

3. Change Zone’s Innovation Management

4. The 8 Pillars of Motivation
5.One Hour to Action - The ONLY Way to Improve Your Life

6. Anthony Robbins: The Edge - The Power to Change Your Life Now

7. Molana Tariq Jameel Lectures

8. Where Good Ideas Come From: The Natural History of Innovation

Note: As Research is going so many more considerations are on the way also

[CaLmInG MeLoDy]

Jo cheese “Qalam” se nikalti hy, wo Demagh mein Pukhta hoti hy.
beshak..
kaam ko “Plan” k baghair karna aik “Shadeed ghalti” hy
is main niyat bohot kaar farma hai..plan is must..
Agar Hum “Daily List” banaty hein to Hamara ka “La-Shaouri Demagh/Sub-Concious Mind” us pe sochna shoro kar deta hy.
ye baat bohot importent hai..aur prectical bhi..
Jab Hum apni list pe majoud koi kaam “Mukamal” kar laity hein to Es se humein aik“Kamyaabi ka Ehsaas” hota hy
Very true...
Hamaisha yaad rakhein “Kamyabi” k usolon mein se aik usool hy kisi bhi kaam ko shoro karny se pehly “Choty Choty” Hisson mein Baant laina…
very practical and effective approach..
Hamari kisi “Nakaami” k 100% Awamil mein 80% Awaamil ki waja chand bari wajoohat hoti hein aur 20% awamil k peachy “Beesiun/Many” choti wajoohaat…Hum un 80% wali Bari wajoohat ko talsh karein gy aur nazar mein rakhein gy. Es ko hum 80/20 rule/Usool (Pareto Analysis) bhi kehty hein.
hmmm..very nice information...thnx for it..
precie
Jab bhi HUM kisi kaam ko apne “Iraady” se baghair kisi k “Sonpny/kehny” se shoro karty hein to HUM mein aik “Umang/Internal Force” jag jaati hy.
beshak...
Jab bhi koi kaam “Mukamal” karein to HUM apne aap ko Es ka “Inaam” Zaroor dein (Misal k taur pe mera aik dost har kaam ki takmeel par “Shukraany k Nawafil” ada karta hy aur doosra“Aik Achi Documentary” dekhta hy).
good idea......
tehreer aik lecture ka roop liye hue hai,magar practical approach rakhne waaloun ke liye behtreen information rakhti hai.is ki ehmiyat se inkaar nahi kia ja sakta...
aap ki tehreer ke hisaab se maqsad-e-hayaat aik kamyab insan bann-na hai..hain na? theek hai ye bhi..aj kal ka insan is soch par bohot tezi se gaamzn hai..aur halaat aur moqe ki munaasbat se ye hi approach kamyab hai..aur kamyabi waise bhi achi cheez hai...practical approch ke point of view se behtreen tehreer. mqaable ke liye naik tamnaayain...Allah aap ko mazeed kamyaabiyoun se nawaze..aameen.

[mausamchand]

Wah wah..kia baat hai...waqi researcher ho kia?

[shimmz]

beautiful sharing............................

[Mariam Fatima]

so nice work............mujhe aaj he self analysis(SWOT) per assignment mili hai....it's really helping for meThanks a lot!!!

[tanwish]

thanks for beautiful and interesting sharing...............................

[patriot19472001]

tehreer aik lecture ka roop liye hue hai,magar practical approach rakhne waaloun ke liye behtreen information rakhti hai.is ki ehmiyat se inkaar nahi kia ja sakta...
aap ki tehreer ke hisaab se maqsad-e-hayaat aik kamyab insan bann-na hai..hain na? theek hai ye bhi..aj kal ka insan is soch par bohot tezi se gaamzn hai..aur halaat aur moqe ki munaasbat se ye hi approach kamyab hai..aur kamyabi waise bhi achi cheez hai...practical approch ke point of view se behtreen tehreer. mqaable ke liye naik tamnaayain...Allah aap ko mazeed kamyaabiyoun se nawaze..aameen.

Auslamoaliakum

Bohat Shukriya...Bary Bary "Writers" k comments aain to banda waisay hi "Blush" ho jata hy Kya aap "Black Font" waly Fiqron ki Thori mazeed Tashreeh kar sakti hein?

Regards...

[patriot19472001]

so nice work............mujhe aaj he self analysis(SWOT) per assignment mili hai....it's really helping for meThanks a lot!!!

Auslamoaliakum

MAin koi ziada Parha Likha Aadmi nhi hon Lakin Itna pata hy k "SWOT" analysis mein agar aap apni Friends (Jo Waqi Aap ko janti hein) se thori si debate karein gi to 80% idea ho jaaye ga aap ko. Tehreer No Pasanad karan da Shukriya...

Regards...

[CaLmInG MeLoDy]

Auslamoaliakum

Bohat Shukriya...Bary Bary "Writers" k comments aain to banda waisay hi "Blush" ho jata hy Kya aap "Black Font" waly Fiqron ki Thori mazeed Tashreeh kar sakti hein?

Regards...

hmm.means aap abhi tak "Blush" nahi hue hain..............ho jaayain ge...bare writers aate hi hounge..........
aap ne jo black colour wale Fiqroun ki baat ki hai..us par inshaAllah discussion hogi..magar farmaaish poori hone ke baad................

[*~Princess Pari~*]

...............................Ya Allah roman urdu me mjh sey 5, 6 lines se zada nhi prhi jati...............or innnnnnnnnnniiii lambi Tehreer......................

wese itney dino ki research or disscussion key baad aap yaqeenan kisi Mantaqi Nateejey pr pohanch chukey hongey........

Aap ki tehreer Inshallah 6, 7 qistoon me mukammal kr hi loongi....................!!!Aaj sirf UNWAAN prha hey....

[Rujail]

assalam o alaikum
meera masla he ke me writing roman ma nai parh sakta. . .
chotey comments ki baat aur he. .. per sorry dera mind na kerna. .. umeed kerta hon . . .ke MOds and deegar loug aap ki tahreer ko appriciate karain ge.

thanx for inviting me.

wsalam

[happygolucky]

It is commendable that you have been able to give a comprehensive and helpful analysis of a difficult subject such as maqsad e hayat in a short article which would require a whole book.
Very helpful and practical ways to lead a successful life are given and explained.
A brilliant work and the best part is your statement that this is an ongoing research.
“The 7 Habits of highly effective people” by Stephen Covey could be helpful to you in your ongoing research, if you haven’t read it already.
Thank you for the wonderful experience.

[patriot19472001]

It is commendable that you have been able to give a comprehensive and helpful analysis of a difficult subject such as maqsad e hayat in a short article which would require a whole book.
Very helpful and practical ways to lead a successful life are given and explained.
A brilliant work and the best part is your statement that this is an ongoing research.
“The 7 Habits of highly effective people” by Stephen Covey could be helpful to you in your ongoing research, if you haven’t read it already.
Thank you for the wonderful experience.

Thank You so much man. I also considered

1- 7 Habits
2- The 8th Habit
3- Brine Tracy Personal Achievements
4- Anthony Robins Lectures
5- Deepak Chopra
6- John Maxwell

Baharhal aap ka Bohat Bohat Shukriya

Stay Blessed

Regards...

[isbah ahmad]

nice sharing.............................

[itsarshad]

very nice ..................................................

[Savi Abbas]

very admirable effort!!!! i liked the way you have explained the topic of your this writing..your thoughtful approach is very applicable on practicable grounds and it will be very helpful for all people whoever wants to get some guidance on this level. feeling lucky that i got chance to read your this superb article!!! i am hoping we will get more writings on more intresting topics in near future.
thanks alot for sharing ...blessings

[patriot19472001]

very admirable effort!!!! i liked the way you have explained the topic of your this writing..your thoughtful approach is very applicable on practicable grounds and it will be very helpful for all people whoever wants to get some guidance on this level. feeling lucky that i got chance to read your this superb article!!! i am hoping we will get more writings on more intresting topics in near future.
thanks alot for sharing ...blessings

Auslamoalaikum

Thanks for Appreciation. Infact appreciation/comments shows the level of a reader. Now a days most people can't understand/analyze the thingss on practical grounds. We ASIANS are always affected by the words even those words has no application. We always "LOVE" promises instead of watching out "Results". In this "Storm" of poor understanding "people" who think about "practicable grounds" are Blessing.

Ilm to Momin ki khoi hoi Meeras hy. Yahi samaghna Mushkil ho gaya aaj kal...

Bohat khush rahein aur khush rakhein

Regards...

[Minal]

Asalam-O-alaikum,
Very nice n informative sharing....And very practical approach.
Ap ne bohat acha explain kiya hai, its the way one should go on with the balance in each n everything. And I really appreciate your vocabulary especially of urdu, its really good. Very good effort, keep it up....

[patriot19472001]

Asalam-O-alaikum,
Very nice n informative sharing....And very practical approach.
Ap ne bohat acha explain kiya hai, its the way one should go on with the balance in each n everything. And I really appreciate your vocabulary especially of urdu, its really good. Very good effort, keep it up....

Thanks...Asal mein "Tang Nazri" wo E.Coli hy jis ne sab ko Jakar liya hy...Aur Un-Balancing wo "Salmonella" hy jis ne "Dil" ko Tabah kar diya hy...Nateejatan Aqeedon pe "Total Plate Count" ziada ho gaya....Ab bas Zaroorat hy to "Islamic Hygiene" ki jo "Kitaab-o-Sunnat" k Sanitizer se in Tamam ka "Khatma" kar de...

Aap ka Bohat Bohat Shukriya...

Bohat khush rahein aur khush rakhien

Regards...