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    Thank you all those who have clicked on this article!

    My job is to write articles that attract people and get the maximum number of clicks.

    And think about it…. all I had to do was to pick a title with the word ‘pornography’ in it and VOILA!!! The endless clicks start.

    Don’t worry bro (or sis)! It’s not just you. This is the dilemma of our beloved nation, the ISLAMIC republic of Pakistan.

    Some years ago Pakistan topped Google’s list for searches on some porn related keywords.

    WHAT!!? In a conservative country like ours, where Taliban own all the “chai ka dhaba’s” and women are ‘oppressed’?

    Yes! This was true back then and I am sure that even now, if not number one, Pakistan is surely in the top five.

    What do you expect? When there are no restrictions on accessing any porn site on the internet and all you have to do is chat up the video store guy to get a porn DVD.




    Oh! To make it worse a “ghanta” at any internet cafe is as easy as cheap as twenty rupees and the DVD….around a 100! Maybe even less if you have a good dirty joke on your phone to forward.

    I know I sound a whole lot satirical, but if you really analyze it, this is a growing menace that is stinking up the whole society.

    I don’t have to quote religious injunctions to tell people that anything related to porn is wrong. But in a society like ours it is downright criminal.

    This might sound insulting, but as a nation we are ill equipped to put into place moral controls. There is no concept of parental controls and it takes us less than a second to throw all ethics out the window as and when needed.

    So just imagine the damage that the free for all porn is doing to our society.

    Forget kids for a second. Think about this… In a conservative society like ours a person can throw all caution to the wind and get full access to sexually explicit content with very little hurdles. What then? Where does this frustration vent out? Pre-marital affairs, extra marital affairs, rape, child molestation and what not!!!

    Just for a second… think of your sister, mother, wife or daughter in any of the above situations. Makes you cringe doesn’t it?!

    Now do you see the down side to it? I am sure you do.

    The values that pornography propagates are against the concept of a family. Pornography completely weakens the traditional values that favour marriage, family and children. Is that where we want our society to head?

    Pornography clearly exploits women and is complicit in violence against women. Pornography is synonymous with domination, humiliation, and coercion of women, and reinforces sexual and cultural attitudes promoting sexual harassment.

    Don’t believe me? Well, then you might believe the “angraiz” feminists that claim that porn contributes to the male-centered objectification of women and thus to sexism (so does modeling).

    So what do we do? Like I said, and I know you’ll agree with me that we are incapable of imposing any self-control on ourselves and our family… (I know people who watch Indian item songs with their children around).

    The workable solution in my view is a complete ban on porn. We have tried the opposite and it clearly does not work.

    The government should take heed from the Gulf countries where all such things are banned. And believe you me, it is effective. Kids don’t have ready access to porn and neither does every other Tom, Dick and Harry (or Ali, Qasim, and Abdullah).

    It’s not as difficult as it sounds. Most reputable companies in Pakistan have all this content blocked on their networks, so why can’t our government do it? I don’t think the cost is really much to bear if you consider that local companies can afford it.

    Even if there is a cost factor, I still say why not? Look at the benefits! Is there really any benefit in leaving it open for all?

    I have gotten you thinking right? Good!

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    First of all thanks for raising this important issue and i totally agree with you.
    i also know, no body wants to talk on this topic at least in Pakistan becuz there are many reasons behind.

    at least as a Muslim we must think, where we are going?
    if shameful Govt can not restricted all of those sites.
    at least as a Muslim, we can control on "NAFS". becuz it is in our hand.

    USA working on "Social Engineering Program" to destroying Muslim rules, and ummah...
    and unfortunately almost they got success.

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    Can we afford?
    Well... Hell yeah! It's cheaper then eggs
    a dozen

    Should we allow it?
    Well... Heavens me, NO!!!

    Should Govt. Ban it?
    Lolz... as if it is not Banned already?

    Problem wid our society, why so much Porn instead of Corn ???

    Frankly speeching (no I am not just speaking, arhh!) one big reason why Western countries are so developed... is that they don't carry this "Tension" wid them, they are sexually satisfied, free mahool. They go to work satisifed & progress ... (I am serious here!)

    Here in our society we have this "Matti pao" attitude. When a child is born, everybody recognises his/her need for food but when the same child reaches puberty, not many families are really bothered about "new food requirements" . Current education system has further worsened this situation, where 25 years of Education & 3-4 years of Job for financial security means, On Avg. a teenager has to remain bachelor for about 12 to 15 years for a Male & 9 -13 years for a Female... all those years young bodies are continuously denied what they naturally yearn for
    . So youth try alternatives, Porn being 1st hand or 2nd hand choice. 'Googling' it or 'Binging' they won't rest till 'Yahooooing"

    It's solution is already provided in religion, early marriage & simple living... if we marry our youth at early age they will become more responsible. Currently due to movies media influence they carry that Nikkah is the last thing, climax of movie... No! in actual life it is the beginning.

    This is getting too long, I'will just quote an example of a poor but wise father. Sher Jan a poor villager near Quette married his son at the age of 18-19 with a girl of 15-16 years. Some educated urban people questioned his decision. 'What is the education of your son?' 'How much can he earn?' 'How he will support his family?' 'How you are going to support your family & your son's family?". Sher Jan's reply is an eye & ear opener for us ...He replied , "I am a poor person, My son is just matric, able to read & write... He is adult now , I have seen many boys of his age gone astray. His marriage ceremony was very simple, few relatives & friends invited, I could only afford one dish for walimah, few of the relatives helped as well. I have a small piece of land which produces enough crop to meet our needs 'How much will my new daughter-in-law eat?' I can afford her 2 roti, I made a small room for newly wed. So they have a nice home to start with. I have fulfilled my duty & God is the provider "

    I am sure if proper education & guidance is provided our youth will become much more responsible, Muhammad bin Qasim was just 17 when he conquered Sindh & he was married at that age. Blind race of status & never ending luxurious is biggest hindrance in early marriage.With simple life style & attitude of mutual support within families can overcome these problems easily. Phir apuon ka youth bhi 'tension nahi leynay ka... bus deynay ka , kiya?

    (Note: Please do NOT reply wid 'forced marriages' issue it has no relation with my post... Marriage at young age does NOT mean Forced marriage)



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    kiya fazool thread lagya hai u ne...mare pass inna time nahi is ko pora parhon
    well clicks is liye hoye ke hum sab ko adat hai her new thread ko aik dafa zaror dekhte hain
    phir us main comment karen na kareen
    tum ziayda kush na ho ke tum ne aik lafaz likh ke clicks le liye

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    Re: Pornography in Pakistan.Can we afford or allow it?

    You will get same number of clicks in any other country its not in Pakistan. Have you done any scientific researches not Google one that's only in Pakistan. Its should be scientific world wide with control.

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    sorry but useless thread..................

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    U shud put this thread in the current affairs section..

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    i totaly agree with missy n fanta..........
    and Mr.humaray click kerne ko tu chorhie coz FK main esee stupid discussion main ne tu kabhi nahin dekhi...lakin yeh pataa chal gayaa k khaasaa interest hai app ka "---------------" ki researches main..but plz keep FK away from these dirty researches

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    mai is korner k mod sy req karroga plzzzz is ko move karden this in not a place to discuse such thing it must be in current affairs

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    Is therad ko Move Ya Del kia jaey......Coz ye aik Family Forum hey..or yahan is qisam ki disscussion allow nhi hain...!!!

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    first of all, the writer is a cheap minded guy, who wrote in the introduction that boys and girls clikced this thread just becasue they saw the word pornography...well mr cheap, we didnot click it because of this word, we clicked it to see the debate going on this topic and to give our feedback, what to do with pornography, because everyone on this forum, except you, knows that anything cheap and abusive or adult stuff CAN NOT BE uploaded here....so correct your own thoughts and mind, every one else came to this thread with a positive en clean mind.
    secondly, our IPS do not ban this sort of stuff, but you see, not every one visit these sort of websites. and this pornography on internet spreaded in last few years, before internet, porn movies were available in the markets and those who wanted to watch those, were watching...
    i think yes we should put a filter on our Ips to stop these sort of material. and we should know what is the main reason , why people go towards pornography? you are saying, a person is sick, now why is he sick? you must know the reason. according to me, the reason is clear and solution has already been told 1400 years ago. Pakistan is a hot climate country where boys and girls get to their adult age very early. almost in the age of 16 they are adult, sometimes even before. but parents arrange their marrages when they are in the age of 28,29,30, not before. to spend these 14,15 years, when their adulthood is on peak, they find these temporary solutions of enjoyment.
    this is not their fault, its a human nature. now the solution which was told 1400 years ago by islam is, arrange the marriages of your kids when they read to adult age. this is the only solution. but many NGOs in pak go against marriages in the age of 18,19 or 20 and call it early age marriage, but they never speake against the adultry in europe where girls and boys go to bed first in the age of 13,14 and many girls get pregnant at the age of 15,16, with out a husband....although its a different story, but the solution to this pornography lies in marriages.....

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    very well said Rao 1
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    ideed this is a matter of big concern, our civil society should act on this subject, don't ran away or avoid this problem. We need to educate our masses, unfortunately we are loosing our family oriented culture, we are promoting "me my and I" culture which already destroyed the west, wake up guys.

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    What struck me most and got my blood boiling was the use of words Pornography along with Pakistan in an accomodative sort of way:- oh, should we have it now or later sort of attitude. Pakistan came into being by the sacrifices of millions, and how anyone dare use the words Pornography in the context of the word Pakistan allowing or accomodating it. How would you feel someone post a thread: should Paksitan have a new Religion. Same is the kind of nauseating feelings I was struck with. I wanted to bombard it with all the power at my command.

    Pakistan has jumped onto the internet and sky TV age too quickly and without preparations. People have no idea what they are watching and what are its social and psychological effects. I personally feel 3/4 of the peple are not even metally prepared to swallow the programmes and films being run on cable neworks let alone intenet. They are getting ruined. Lack of education, lack of knowledge has rendered them prone to all the social and mental ills this technology has brought upon them.

    In UK the Open University runs courses and lectures on Internet and Tv, and has been doing so for years. The educated countries know how to harness the benefit of new technologies. Paksitan has not learned to handle it at all. Then we have the newly acquired westernised mental attitude which make people even revolt against Islam. While the West is discovering Islam and adopting it, and our newrich deserting it under foreign cultural effects.

    I am also amazed that the person who introduced the thread and the ones who are persuing it are all new members on the same date like SIJT, VOM AND MirrorsAge all joined in July 2011 and each have a few posts to their credit. What is the mission, I can't tell. Had he made the heading such as ' We condemn the spread of pornography in Pakistan and ask all to join in to stop it' would have been better understandable, rather than to ask 'Can we afford or allow it?'
    Disgusting way of propagating a message which may have been conceived with some good intentions. It needs knowledge to spread knowledge. Pakistanis need to grow up and have knowledge first before they open their mouth on world forums.

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    well..this is a bull****...first ..in pakistan nearly 60% people dont have access to internet and others who have access to internet they are not so high bandwidth....the other point is that in some europian countries internet is a basic right of an individual ...here in england an average individual spend atleast 1.5 hours on porn per week...
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    in another case a guy was so obsessed with watching porn that he start raping...
    Rape suspect: porn surfing 'took over my life' - The Local



    i heard these kinds of bull****s way back in 2004-5.....when even i didnt have full access to internet...
    please admin dont allow such kind of threads which dont have proper proof other than google...these are just to let down us....

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    I agree with this person except what he said in his 1st seven lines. In those 7 lines he seems to be on payroll of Anti-Pakistan elements who just ignored the growing rapes rate in European countries, South America n ofcourse India n India has no comparison with Pakistan. Let say if 30 to 40% Pakistanis watch porn but rape n sexual abuse rate is in control then 60% of Indians are involved in rapes without watching porn. Rest of his sayings do make sense except his 1st 7 lines in which he tried to target Pakistan n claimed as Pakistanis are fallen in love with pornography. I just clicked on thanks button so he can get paid by his masters to spend a "Ghanta" in a net cafe to watch his favourite porn.

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    Rubbish thread,
    Wonder how Admin approved it???

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    First lets define what is p0rn.. these mujra videos and some Bollywood movies are nothing less than p0rno movies.. Every crappy bollywood song is like dry humping..

    some user posted that in west there is no "sexual tension" and people work tension free.. if so why there are still rape cases in the west??

    Also that user might not have heard about "teenage pregnancy" and half of these pregnancies are terminated.. as high as 70% in some Scandinavian countries... If not terminated we will be looking more videos like this:

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    Bomb dhamake

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