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    SUPPOSE U GET MARRIAGE PROPOSAL FROM A FAMILY OR A PERSON WITH WHOM U R IN GOOD RELATIONSHIPS

    YOU DON'T WANT TO MARRY BUT U ALSO DON'T WANT TO HURT THEM

    WHAT WOULD BE YOUR WISE AND CLEVER STRATEGY TO REFUSE THEM WITH MAINTAINING A GOOD ENVIRONMENT AND FRIENDLY RELATIONSHIP


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    Walaikum assalam

    Good Topic as always

    Daikhain jab aap kisi ki baat/wish poori na karain to usay dukh to ho ga hi, Zyada ya kam! So yeh to ho nai sakta k aap kisi ko Bilkul bhi hurt kiye baghair inkaar kar dain. Albatta agar aap ahsan tareeqay se inkaar karain To iski shiddat kam ho sakti hai.
    The most easy and simplest way is k aap pehlay khud Ko khud k saamnay clear karain K if you are going to refuse, then what's the reason? Phir aap respective family/person se direct baat kar lain. It would avoid confusions Or agla banda bhi zyada hurt nai ho ga k aap ne usay itna confidence to dia k us se apni baat share kar sakian


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    walaikum Assalam.ye to totaly foolishness ho gi k koi ap se muhabbat kare or ap muhabbat ka jawab muhabbat se na do,bare lucky insaan hote hain jinhe koi chahe or phir vo os se bhi ziada luckiest hote hain jise koi intahai toot k chahe.

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    hmmmmm...mera khayal b sweet lilly jesa hi hai....

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    Thnx fr liking

    right bt zroori nahi he ap hr reason doosre shakhs ko btaa saken

    lets suppose wo shakhs apko psnd nahi hey..........to kiya ap ye reason us ko bol sktey ho?? Ofcrs not

    there may b some ways k ap hurt kye bagher apna kam nikal len :/

    I ws jst wondering log kese krtey hen refuse apne relatives me agr proposal ho to .......relatives ko chora b n jaskta na ap koi doosra reason de sktey hen lets suppose koi or shakhs class, education or income k lehaz se us se bhtr ho to u cant say this reason

    baqi I agree
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    Walaikum assalam

    Good Topic as always

    Daikhain jab aap kisi ki baat/wish poori na karain to usay dukh to ho ga hi, Zyada ya kam! So yeh to ho nai sakta k aap kisi ko Bilkul bhi hurt kiye baghair inkaar kar dain. Albatta agar aap ahsan tareeqay se inkaar karain To iski shiddat kam ho sakti hai.
    The most easy and simplest way is k aap pehlay khud Ko khud k saamnay clear karain K if you are going to refuse, then what's the reason? Phir aap respective family/person se direct baat kar lain. It would avoid confusions Or agla banda bhi zyada hurt nai ho ga k aap ne usay itna confidence to dia k us se apni baat share kar sakian
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    right bt ye kuch zyada filmi hogya he lol practical life is totally change

    there could be so many reason jis ki wja se ap positive response na de sktey hon

    or ye zroori nahi k jis ka proposal aye wo muhabbat krta hoa ap se......ye change situation he , m jst asking about normal proposals
    Quote Originally Posted by singer_zuhaib View Post
    walaikum Assalam.ye to totaly foolishness ho gi k koi ap se muhabbat kare or ap muhabbat ka jawab muhabbat se na do,bare lucky insaan hote hain jinhe koi chahe or phir vo os se bhi ziada luckiest hote hain jise koi intahai toot k chahe.
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    chalen phr ap se same sawal jo sweet lilly se poocha he
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    hmmmmm...mera khayal b sweet lilly jesa hi hai....

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    hmmm.......dekhen ye apke ikhlaaq pe depend karta hai k ap kese refuse karen ge......e.g. mere cuzn ne apni bivi ko divorce di phir uski behnon ne meri bari sis ka rishta manga uske liye...lekin mera cuzn nahi mana...usne ye keh kar refuse kar dia k muje kunwari larki se shadi karni hai....qk jis se pehle uski shadi hui thi wo uske ghar k sath e rehti hai wo phir usko tanay degi k dekha phir talaq yafta hi mili hena.....ab uske is reason pe ham hurt nahi hue......

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    haha ye to apka bara pan henaaaaaa............ap ki smjhdari he

    hr koi asa ho to mslaa hi kya he phr
    Quote Originally Posted by amnarani View Post
    hmmm.......dekhen ye apke ikhlaaq pe depend karta hai k ap kese refuse karen ge......e.g. mere cuzn ne apni bivi ko divorce di phir uski behnon ne meri bari sis ka rishta manga uske liye...lekin mera cuzn nahi mana...usne ye keh kar refuse kar dia k muje kunwari larki se shadi karni hai....qk jis se pehle uski shadi hui thi wo uske ghar k sath e rehti hai wo phir usko tanay degi k dekha phir talaq yafta hi mili hena.....ab uske is reason pe ham hurt nahi hue......

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    Aik aap key aaney sey lagta hey k Love korner ki BAHAAR loat aai hey.......................


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    WaleikumAssalam !

    Esi situation se samna ho tu ............

    1_sochney k liye kuch wqt lein phir , Apney lrkery/Larki ki bohut sari Khamiyan khuwah wo such hon ya jhoot , Rafta Rafta un
    logon ko batain , is tarah k un ko ehsas bhi na ho k u r doing this on purpose .

    2_ Rishtedari agr mazboot ho tu sirf ek inkaar se khatam nhi ho gi .

    3_ Halat ko samney rkhtey huwey koi dosra tareeqa upnaya jaye.

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    Waalikum Asslaam


    hmmm critical situation


    i have no idea n suggestion :D

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    lol tht's ur highness mam
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    Aik aap key aaney sey lagta hey k Love korner ki BAHAAR loat aai hey.......................
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    pehla mashwara bara mazahya tha lol........ khamyan b btayen or unhe pata b naa chle or na mind kren...........hw's it possible?
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    WaleikumAssalam !

    Esi situation se samna ho tu ............

    1_sochney k liye kuch wqt lein phir , Apney lrkery/Larki ki bohut sari Khamiyan khuwah wo such hon ya jhoot , Rafta Rafta un
    logon ko batain , is tarah k un ko ehsas bhi na ho k u r doing this on purpose .

    2_ Rishtedari agr mazboot ho tu sirf ek inkaar se khatam nhi ho gi .

    3_ Halat ko samney rkhtey huwey koi dosra tareeqa upnaya jaye.
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    hmmm critical situation


    i have no idea n suggestion :D

    thanx for tagging me
    LOl situation nahi he pr mere mind me b ase question ajate hen to ap logo k mind me ans kun atey situation me dey to rai hun lol

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    Thnx fr liking

    right bt zroori nahi he ap hr reason doosre shakhs ko btaa saken

    lets suppose wo shakhs apko psnd nahi hey..........to kiya ap ye reason us ko bol sktey ho?? Ofcrs not

    there may b some ways k ap hurt kye bagher apna kam nikal len :/

    I ws jst wondering log kese krtey hen refuse apne relatives me agr proposal ho to .......relatives ko chora b n jaskta na ap koi doosra reason de sktey hen lets suppose koi or shakhs class, education or income k lehaz se us se bhtr ho to u cant say this reason

    baqi I agree
    Ummm Agar Wo shakhs Aap ko Pasand Nahin To Phir yehi hai k aisi situation main Insaan khud involve hi na ho ... Parents/elders k through hi baat ho coz wo zyada achay tareeqay se manage kar sakain ge.
    Yeah Farq To parr jata hai relatives main is tarha ki baaton se Par kuch paanay k liye kuch khona to parta hi hai phir

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    yahi to me janna chahti hun..............chahe insan khud refuse kre ya parents kren...................bt tariqa kya hona chahye :/
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    Ummm Agar Wo shakhs Aap ko Pasand Nahin To Phir yehi hai k aisi situation main Insaan khud involve hi na ho ... Parents/elders k through hi baat ho coz wo zyada achay tareeqay se manage kar sakain ge.
    Yeah Farq To parr jata hai relatives main is tarha ki baaton se Par kuch paanay k liye kuch khona to parta hi hai phir

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    Quote Originally Posted by ѕмαяту ¢αт View Post
    yahi to me janna chahti hun..............chahe insan khud refuse kre ya parents kren...................bt tariqa kya hona chahye :/
    Ummm Pata nahin Phir
    Laikin aik baat to confirm hai k aisi situation main Average families k inter-relations kharab ho jatay hain, zyada nai to thora bohat farq to parr hi jata hai!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ѕмαяту ¢αт View Post
    lol tht's ur highness mam

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    pehla mashwara bara mazahya tha lol........ khamyan b btayen or unhe pata b naa chle or na mind kren...........hw's it possible?



    LOl situation nahi he pr mere mind me b ase question ajate hen to ap logo k mind me ans kun atey situation me dey to rai hun lol
    lolz ab esi situation pe kisi ka mind blank ho tou wo kiya ans de skta hay

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    lol tht's ur highness mam

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    pehla mashwara bara mazahya tha lol........ khamyan b btayen or unhe pata b naa chle or na mind kren...........hw's it possible?



    LOl situation nahi he pr mere mind me b ase question ajate hen to ap logo k mind me ans kun atey situation me dey to rai hun lol

    lolz..............ham aapko apna Qeemti Mashwara zaroor detey .................lekin hamarey Hubby g Dubai janey k liye nikal chukey hain or ham Tanha udaas bulbul ki trha apna borya bistar samait kr Maikey janey ki tayyari kr rahaey hain.,...........

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    :O apk huby ji??? ye kab huwaaa? mubarkhaaaaaan
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    lolz..............ham aapko apna Qeemti Mashwara zaroor detey .................lekin hamarey Hubby g Dubai janey k liye nikal chukey hain or ham Tanha udaas bulbul ki trha apna borya bistar samait kr Maikey janey ki tayyari kr rahaey hain.,...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by ѕмαяту ¢αт View Post
    :O apk huby ji??? ye kab huwaaa? mubarkhaaaaaan
    hmm ѕмαяту ¢αт, princess pari ko koi jin le ura......

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    Quote Originally Posted by ѕмαяту ¢αт View Post
    :O apk huby ji??? ye kab huwaaa? mubarkhaaaaaan
    koi zada arsa nhi hua................8 mnths phley ye Hadisa roonuma hua..............jab hamay Umar qaid ki saza hoi..............khair mubarak..........

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    hmm ѕмαяту ¢αт, princess pari ko koi jin le ura......
    lolzzzzzzzzzz....................shukar karain ham phir bhi apni shakal dikha jatey hain.......kuch fk k loag to Shadi kr k shayad Allah ko piyarey ho gaey...!!!......

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    Assalam o Alaikum

    Situation is tough and you just gave some hints. Following hints might be used

    1- Always use indirect refusal instead of direct refusal e.g. Take time for thinking and forget to answer them. This will create a realization for them not to ask again
    2- DON'T ever try to keep close with your relatives (Those who proposed you) because this thing will lead them to the false assumption that you are comfortable with them and they will insist for the answer
    3- Keep your personal life personal. The relatives who will not understand your silence, they will also not understand even if you will give a reason
    4- Don't try to be direct with them. Use someone else (Someone elder, most probably parents) to lead the REFUSAL decision
    5- And Remember! Refusal from a girl is felt as an insult in our society even in the 21th century so you can either make them happy by saying "YES" or keep silence and avoid their anger
    6- Don't show any false reason which lead to destroy your personality in present or in future

    In fact when a proposal is initiated by any family for a girl, its the sign that whole family like that girl being their closed one so along with refusal, also request them not to talk about this matter with other close families because this situation will create a clashing environment between the both families.

    Regards.




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